Those with experience, fill me in please......  

rm_talloneforu3 61M
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9/16/2005 4:44 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Those with experience, fill me in please......

I've been in AdultFriendFinder for maybe 3-4 months as a standard member. Pretty cool service, but do I have questions...... I see profiles of women that interest me and send winks, on occasion might put them in a hotlist to show some interest. (Some have chosen to then block access, which I respect.....that's their way of saying not interested) I have also sent a few mail messages to ladies who have expressed on interest (those who sent me a wink or added me to their hotlist) only to be ignored...... Am I being too aggressive?? All I am trying to do is make contact first, not try to jump straight into bed with anyone. Is this the norm with AdultFriendFinder?

I've also tried to go to instant messenger while I'm online in case anyone wants to chat. I do see people online, but have no idea how to contact anyone while they are online except through the im. I'm not sure why standard members are online for hours at a time if there is no way to communicate with each other.......

Anyways, thanks for reading and give me your comments. Am I being too pushy? Are people here more for curiousity than anything else? What's the best way to contact someone who has sent a wink or added you to a hotlist?

Have a great day!!

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