Run Around The House 3 Times, Then Jump On My Head  

rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/15/2005 8:24 am
Run Around The House 3 Times, Then Jump On My Head

Fetishes. I see a lot of profiles stating that they participate in fetishes. Hell mine even says that. Now that I think about it...what exactly constitutes a fetish?

I know the old saying...fetish VS sick. Being tickled with feathers during sex is a fetish...fucking the chicken is sick. But I/m still unclear??

Is a fetish merely something that only a few others do? That kind of implies that maybe this activity is abnormal. Is it really abnormal or is it that maybe we just haven't been exposed to it? Forget about the chicken fucking here for a sec.

Light B&D has been toyed with by lots of people. Tieing a partner certainly is nothing new. Big red ball in the mouth...probably tried by less people, but the concept sure has crossed my mind during many a windy oration. Tickling isn't new.

So is it that a fetish is off the wall? LIke maybe...OK, you dress up like Waldo, I'll sit on the roof, you run around the house 3 times shouting "Here's Waldo", and I'll jump off onto your head. Is that a fetish?

Or is a fetish merely anything that turns you on?


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demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
8/15/2005 11:22 am

lioness: i was just about to say that i read 'fetish' as being necessary for sexual pleasure. that's why i'm worried about my deep interest in chest hair... fetish or not? (i'm worried that it is, and then i might find the greatest man in the world, sans chest hair, and be... unable to enjoy him). so far, the only reason i can think that a smooth-chested man would be nice is that chocolate sauce is easier to clean off. or so i imagine. (thought of that yesterday).

hm... does anybody have a chocolate fetish?


rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
8/15/2005 11:50 am

lioness...obviously I am confused. Let me get this straight...by you definition I must have a vagina fetish. I certainly need one present for sexual gratification. Now I'm really confused.

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
8/15/2005 11:52 am

kitten the chocolate sause is a real pain to pluck out the next morning. But then again so is the candle wax, ball bearings, and feather duster. Hairy can be bad too.

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ANewLevel4Us 38M/37F

8/15/2005 12:07 pm

Technically, a fetish is a fixation on an activity, an object, or on part of the body. A foot fetish is an sexual obsession about feet. Having sexual relations with a chicken is more a form of beastiality. Wearing a chicken suit while you have sex would seem more fetish-like.


rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
8/15/2005 12:15 pm

Anewlevel I think I get it. So...if I dress the chicken in a chicken suit I'm not strange?

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nedthebundler 56M/59F

8/15/2005 12:20 pm

TDA1,

We all have a "Hot Button", and it takes something different to push it. If enough people share the same trigger, it's a fetish, if you're the ONLY one, then you're perverted?

Madness takes its toll. Exact change please!


Ana_6973 43F

8/15/2005 12:34 pm

It says I posted a response but it deleted me. *sniff* No fair. I even talked about boobies just for you TDA.

~~"I can scream as loud as your last one, but I can't claim innocence."~~


ANewLevel4Us 38M/37F

8/15/2005 12:46 pm

Even if you avoid poultry products altogether, I still think you are strange.


five_speed 41M

8/15/2005 1:01 pm

*Reads TDA1'a response to ANewLevel*

wait, we're using this fetish discussion to discern if you're strange or not? We don't need to define "fetish" to decide if you're strange or not, TDA1.

how ever, I agree with the others about a fetsh usually involving an object. It may be an object that is required during sex with a partner of the opposite sex, or an object used by itself with no partner. For instance, if you needed to have sex with your girlfriend in a tub full if spaghetti noodles in order to get your noodle stiff, that would be a fetish. If you liked to screw women's shoes more than you liked to screw the women who wore them, that would be a fetish.


rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
8/15/2005 1:10 pm

Ned I'm clueless bud. I'm still working on the chicken in a chicken suit.

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
8/15/2005 1:11 pm

My luck Ana. %$#@ CIA getting even.

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
8/15/2005 1:11 pm

Anewlevel...so I have that going for me.

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/15/2005 1:15 pm

5 speed I'm starting to catch on...NOT. Spaghetti, shoes...all normal stuff I figure. I think ya'll are saying that maybe a fixation on one thing, or a specific focal point is a fetish?? Then vaginas have to be a fetish by definition.

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Ana_6973 43F

8/15/2005 2:03 pm

A body part is not viewed as a fetish unless it is a part not considered sexual in nature, like feet. Breasts, penises, vaginas, buttocks and mouths would all be viewed as sexual in nature so finding those arousing would not be a fetish. But finding legs, feet, teeth, ears, pinkie fingers arousing, that would be a fetish. Needing your SO to wear red lipstick on her vaginal lips in order for you to get off, that would be a fetish. Make sense now?

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
8/15/2005 2:30 pm

Sort of...except for this. Remember I dream of Jeannie? She couldn't show her navel on network TV. It was censored. OK...since it's censored that makes it a sexual body part right? Unfit for family...or anyone's viewing. Why isn't that part of the anatomy in main stream sexual conversation? I'm slipping back into confusion.

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BenefitsFriend69 57M/60F

8/15/2005 3:46 pm

I fucked a watermellon once when I was a kid, right after puberty hit. Yeah, we were lying in the field together, the sun was shining, it was a romantic moment, one thing led to another (you know how it goes). I enjoyed it, and to this day I remember her fondly. But, although I don't need to fuck a watermellon to get off, I do think about her from time to time. Bordering on fruit-tiality? Maybe. I'm hoping they go on special soon as autum comes around.

My point? I have one, I think. Enjoying doing something once in awhile isn't a fetish in my book. Needing it to get off is. So I'm chiming in. Don't ask about the sheep..


five_speed 41M

8/15/2005 5:06 pm

"... It was censored. OK...since it's censored that makes it a sexual body part right? Unfit for family...or anyone's viewing. Why isn't that part of the anatomy in main stream sexual conversation? I'm slipping back into confusion.... "

Man, now you're really opening a can of worms. Now you're opening up the discussion beyond fetishes. Now you're asking who decides what is normal and what is not. I could rant and rave on this for hours, because I am strong opponent to censorship and the establishment of popular trends...

But I won’t. I have to get some work done sometime tonight.

Ana hit the nail on the head, and I’ll expand on her post a little bit. Two things must be considered when deciding if something is a fetish or not. First, as Ana mentioned, is it already a body part commonly associated with sex? This includes all sexual organs of both sexes, including genitals and breasts. It also includes any body part that a given culture commonly considers sexual in nature. In America, that can include the mouth for certain, the hands, and probably the anus as well. If the focus is one of these parts, it probably is not a fetish, but you also have to consider what is being done with the object.

For instance, I don’t think most folks would consider a handjob a fetish, but if you fixate on a woman’s hands, if you must fondle them and hold them and trace the veins in her hands while receiving sexual stimulation through intercourse or other means, then that is a hand fetish.

If you like anal sex, that is not a fetish, but if the only way you can get off is to play with your partner’s butt while you masturbate, then you have an anal fetish.

If you love vaginal sex ‒ penis penetration, fingering, cunnilingus, or toys ‒ those are not fetishes. If you want her to strap a mask of Bill Clinton to her crotch so it looks like Bill is eating your penis, well… that is a fetish.

I don’t know if you meant to do it or not, but you’ve already identified why fetishes are hard to define: Their definition relies in some part on what a society considers “normal” or “mainstream,” and American society is so fractured into different subcultures now that “normal” varies from one zip code to the next.

My advice is to not worry about it. As long as you and your partner(s) are having a great time and no one involved is doing anything they don’t want to do, then who cares if it is a fetish or not?


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
8/15/2005 7:51 pm

Hey you sexy semi-retired stunt man! Yes I mean you talldarkavg1, according to dictionary.com a fetish is Something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.

Chest hair does it for me. Then there are oh so many parts of a mans body I love. Men in general! I can name a few. *grin*

I have a man fetish!

DustStormDiva


rm_luke69iner 48M
3275 posts
8/15/2005 8:02 pm

Phew
Glad to hear I'm not the only one in the world with the Waldo fetish.
Welcome brother

I'm still looking for some ladies with a Frankenstein fetish though. I got this huge scar on my abdomen like I was gutted like a fish.


S'io credesse che mia risposta fosse
A persona che mai tornasse al mondo,
Questa fiamma staria senza piu scosse.
Ma perciocche giammai di questo fondo
Non torno vivo alcun, s'i'odo il vero,
Senza tema d'infamia ti rispondo
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~Dante~


rm_CookieLips2 61M

8/16/2005 7:28 am

Barbara Eden had a navel? Who would have guessed! Evidently my eyes never wandered down that far........


rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
8/16/2005 7:45 am

Benefits...and who can blame you? BTW...how did you make out in the seed spitting contest??

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
8/16/2005 7:52 am

5 speed...me...spark controversy? Ask questions that need to be asked? NO way dude.

Are you saying I need to lose the Clinton mask?

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/16/2005 7:52 am

I read it lioness...will comment as well. LOL did you open a can of worms!

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
8/16/2005 7:53 am

Diva as fate would have it...I AM a man...have chest hair too. WooHoo

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
8/16/2005 7:54 am

Luke Luke Luke...a frankenstein fetish? That's not right. Igor I can understand...but frank?

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/16/2005 7:55 am

Cookie rumor has it she did/does. I am suspecting it is an urban legend though.

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/16/2005 8:11 am

Huny...just how hairy? Are we talking Sean Connery hairy or gorilla hairy?

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