Myths...Women Love Oral & Rectums Love Firecrackers  

rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/22/2005 9:21 am
Myths...Women Love Oral & Rectums Love Firecrackers

I have been taking my own survey here kids. I have yet to find a male that absolutely refuses receiving oral sex, and keep in mind that this survey included 3 guys in a coma. Women on the otherhand, do occasionally refuse it, both giving and receiving. And not solely for the obvious. This brings up a few questions.

Do a lot of men just have no skill whatsoever at giving oral sex or is it that they merely have yet to learn how to breathe out their ears? Are men just far more sensitive in this region than women? Can projectile ejaculation kill?

I figured in order to get some quality input on this matter I had better seek professional advice. I spoke with Russian streetwalker, and part-time valve stem remover, Ivanna Rimsky.

Maybe not all women want to receive afterall. OK kids...survey lines are open. Giving ... receiving and why?


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sexysweetlover25 37F

8/22/2005 9:45 am

Any woman who refuses oral is a fool. The only possible reasons I can fathom is a bad experience. Women don't like it when a guy just licks the hole. Hello there is a thing called a clit and it's way more sensitive than a guys cock. It needs to be licked and gently sucked. But as your doing that slip one or two fingers inside and wiggle, than slowly in and out. The key gentlemen is to go slow at first, the woman will tell you when she is ready for more intensity.

As far as a woman giving oral? Guys what ever you do don't push her hand down on your cock. You could choke someone like that. Until the woman has mastered the art of deep throating there is no way all of you is going to fit into her mouth when your hard. (less your shorter than 3 inches)

Bottom line Oral should be fun and flirty not painful and dangerous


ANewLevel4Us 38M/37F

8/22/2005 10:09 am

I like oral sex, giving and recieving... but sometimes I'm just not up for it. I used to be Queen Fellatio - always up for going down, but lately it hasn't been that way. A lot of times I refuse oral because it comes up after a long day of summer heat and a shower that was in the morning time. I'm sure we could get past that just by hopping in the shower again but it kind of kills the mood.

"Go scrub those balls hunny... I want to put them in my mouth in about 10 - 15 minutes."


rm_CookieLips2 61M

8/22/2005 10:20 am

Hey TDA, if you are breathing out of your ears how can you possibly know if you are doing it right? If I hold my nose shut I can force air out of my eyes. Now I just need to master the ability to breath out of my eyes and I should be good to go! I have only met 2 women who refused oral sex. One thought that it was just too nasty and the other said that she was way too sensitive down there. Ms Masty wouldn't go either way but Ms Sensitive could suck a golf ball through a garden hose........


hotandhorny107 58F

8/22/2005 10:21 am

I have discovered that every man has a different way of performing oral on me and although all are enjoyable, some are better than others. I like to be licked and sucked and then fingered when I am about to climax. I will let you know when I am close...

As to performing the deed on my partner, please do not hold my head. It is confining to me and I lose the urge to do it. And don't expect it as part of the package. I had a partner that always would gently push my head down in a southerly direction and want me to perform it on him.

I think it should be more spontaneous and go with the flow. Expectations can ruin the experience sometimes


redlipsprincess
(Princess Lips)
51F

8/22/2005 10:46 am

love to give..love to recieve...

TTFN


rm_sj365 55F
2414 posts
8/22/2005 10:52 am

Oral? yes please...Oh wait, that wasn't the question.

Giving? many reasons depending on the man, the relationship, the location (geographical ya knuckleheads..I KNOW where the penis is located errr for the most part) Sometimes oral is a gift...something you do out of affection & love for that person. Sometimes it's a gift you give yourself because its so fun to see the looks on their faces when you've finished. Sometimes its just showing off.."hey look ma, no hands!" Sometimes it's an expedient way to deal with sexual energy when yer just not in the mood for full tilt boogie mad crazy sweaty monkey sex. Somes times its more convenient than actually fucking..say, in the booth at a restaurant, the dressing room of a department store, the back seat of a public bus, the front seat of a car driving I-80 through Nebraska, the broom closet at your grandmothers house during holiday dinner...errr I've shared too much again havent I? But you get the idea.

Receiving? yes please..and thank you. Its a wonderful part of foreplay, but for me? not the main course. One of my favorite things here @ AdultFriendFinder are all the 'tonguemasters' who claim they will lick a woman for hours. LOL if ya have to do it for hours, methinks yer not doing it right. Me? 9.5 min...much more than that & I'm just annoyed & grabbing a handfull of your hair (or ears for the follicly challenged) and directing you elsewhere...'least that's what I imagine I would do if I ever lasted the full 9.5


rm_BiFemNC28 40F

8/22/2005 10:56 am

The only reason I can think of for refusing oral is if it is a certain time of the month. It takes alot more know how to give oral to a woman than a man. And I am not sure when it became ok to try and punch a whole in the back of a woman's head with your dick.....but guys...stop.


rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
8/22/2005 11:00 am

Sweetlover here's what I'm getting from this:
a. I need a clit
b. I have no worry of choking anyone
c. Trying to give oral to yourself creates hospital bills and traction

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sumlikithot62 54F
1 post
8/22/2005 11:17 am

I agreee with sexysweet.. plus add a bit more thing to add.. if you think pushing our head in and out is fun for you.. sounds like you should just whack it off yourself.. I dont like being forced to do anything.. and I really dont want to yank up that nice dinner you just bought me.

as for licken us. well if you would lick the right spot (the clit) you would see alot more would like it, but be calm with it, its not your dick its my clit.


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8/22/2005 11:52 am

Anewlevel you know TallCo® has been considering the Pocket Ball Scrubber for years. It's a cross between the Pocket Fisherman and a gold course ball washer. I'll check with R & D and see how things are going. Glad to help.

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/22/2005 11:55 am

Cookie let me get this straight. She was TOO sensitive to receive oral. Did you try starting with eyelash flicks, moving up to breathing on it, then flaring your nostril against it, followed by smacking her on the forehead with a rubber hammer? Always worked for me.

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/22/2005 11:57 am

Hot & horney I agree, holding your partners head is just too damn demanding. I merely place a large jumbo-size dictionary on her head and pretned I'm looking shit up.

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/22/2005 12:02 pm

Frnds nobody likes getting off from a Hoover. Except me of course. As far as the cleanliness issue goes, above I mentioned an invention I think would help. And in respect to you THINKING you cannot fit a man's entire length in your mouth...I know this guy in INdiana that would fit easily.

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/22/2005 12:06 pm

Princess I'm thinking you are about to receive a jillion emails!

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/22/2005 12:08 pm

Sj I just finished reading what you wrote...for the eleventh time. I am forwarding tickets to Indiana.

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/22/2005 12:12 pm

BiFem although the hole in rear of your head is easier to drink those new Steak & Shake malts, I can see the drawback. As far as the know-how for giving to a women goes...certainly explains why no one has ever asked me for seconds.

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
8/22/2005 12:15 pm

Likithot...so you're saying ears are NOT handles. I get it. Thanks for the heads up.

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rm_DaphneR 58F
7938 posts
8/22/2005 12:28 pm

Yes and yes. I love both giving and receiving. Oral is jsut flat out fun for many reasons.

Laugh, nice to see a lot of women have the same outlook about the head pushing thing as I do. The guy gets ONE warning about trying to shove my head around. I don't mind if they like to hold on, hands in my hair, but they really should realize I'm the one in charge, considering I have their cock in between my teeth. Once I point that fact out all attempts at head pumping cease. Just for the record, I've never had to follow through with that bit of information, men can understand thinly veiled threats where their pride and oy is concerned.

As far as a guy refusing oral, you haven't met my husband yet, have you?

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.


rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
8/22/2005 12:42 pm

T...gulp...sure you don't want to talk about the oral thing? I would really rather talk about the oral thing. Am I about to get spanked...again?

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justforfun2731 40F

8/22/2005 12:44 pm

I was always one of those girls that thought it was nasty....and if you think I am kissing you after that your nuts!! Maybe it was the way I was raised, but my how times have changed!!! My first time blew me so far away that I didn't even want sex for awhile, just mutual oral gratification for me please!! But there are a few rules men should abide by.....everyone is different, so always mind her moans (and groans) if it sounds negative change what you are doing. I am also very sensitive, so you don't need to press down so hard, or rub so rough. There is ONE man in my area that has learned all the rules and makes the experience oh so wonderful. (ladies, feel free to e-mail me with questions!! lol)


DirtyLilSecret61 55F

8/22/2005 1:26 pm

I LOVE oral. In my perfect world I would perform oral at least three times a day, every day ... and I've yet to find the man who will perform oral on me as long as I want. It's exciting at times, relaxing at others.

Oral gets my vote as often as possible.

"Lil"


rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
8/22/2005 1:54 pm

LOL Just the request lines are open. I think it is pretty much a given isn't it...light and soft at first. Slowly increase speed motion and method. Then use the rubber hammer.

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/22/2005 1:55 pm

Jez...gulp and gulp. You're killing me over here. Oh what the heck...gulp┬│.

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/22/2005 1:57 pm

Daphne I think the problem could just be semantics. Some guys may have a different definition of being skull fucked.

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sexyeyes375 47F

8/22/2005 2:12 pm

... love to give and receive ..

why? for the sheer pleasure and ecstacy..


rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/22/2005 2:32 pm

Sexyeyes moves to the head of the class. A gold star by her name.

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sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
8/22/2005 3:25 pm

couldnt imagine sex without oral.....and if you do ever find a man (or woman) that doesn't like it...have him committed...


broadluvs77 52F

8/22/2005 3:36 pm

I actually know a couple of women who just aren't turned on by oral at all, and they've tried ti with different guys. One of them had a really bad boating accident years ago and her pelvis was crushed, so I'm pretty sure that has something to do with it. I imagine getting her hips in the right position is pretty painful at times and it over shadows the pleasure aspects of it. As far as the other woman, who knows about her?

Anyway, as far as giving oral, I really enjoy it most of the time. As far as trying to pull my head down on your cock, please don't do that. It is really hard to breath when you start deep throating and if you're not in the right rhythm and try to hold my head down, I actually feel like I'm suffocating. It becomes a real trust issue at that point, and if I don't trust you to NOT try to choke me, neither of us are going to have any fun. Now, I don't mind it if you tangle your hands in my hair and even pull it a little.

And speaking of the suffocating thing,....

I'm curious exactly how many guys out there like to have their heads held into place. It seems to me that if we were to pull you in too tight that you'd feel like you were suffocating, too.


rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/22/2005 3:38 pm

Lil...GREAT new photo! GREAT point of view!

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/22/2005 3:39 pm

Huny...made him a believer did ya? Looks like I pour drinks in you at Chicago LMAO

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/22/2005 3:40 pm

Sin I agree 200%. It just isn't right.

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/22/2005 3:42 pm

Broadluvs...why do you think my ears are soooo big?

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FunandFrisky79 41M/37F

8/22/2005 4:44 pm

TDA- I LOVE BOTH GIVING AND RECEIVING (EQUALLY)!!!

When it comes to giving head, it turns me on sooo much! I love being in control and seeing (& hearing) him in total ecstasy! It's Heaven!

As for receiving, I can't get enough of it! Especially when toys are involved! Besides, it's the best way to start the day!

(I tried to keep it short & simple. Otherwise, I could write a whole blog on how I feel about oral! lol)

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jungandhorney 42F

8/22/2005 5:30 pm

It depends......

If I really like the guy, I LOVE giving oral sex!!!!!!!!!!! and I will love recieving it, too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11

However, if I don't really like him, or he is just stupid, I don't want to be going down there........and I certainly DO NOT want him down on me..................


redmustang91 57M  
8662 posts
8/23/2005 8:29 am

Oral sex is nasty which is part of the charm! As Woody Allen said, sex is dirty, if you do it right! Many wives refuse to do it, which is one reason many men cheat! I find more women enjoy having their clits stroked than enjoy the oral thing, but maybe I have not perfected my oral technique! some nice ladies want to teach me the proper technique? I promise to do my homework and study hard!


frostymac4u 46M/45F

8/23/2005 9:22 am

Well,after years of dabbling between some girl thighs i finally met my wife and started dabbling with her and after a few times she told me exactly what she wanted and where and at what point and time she wanted it and then we met a friend and they wanted me to give her oral also, and i did this and found out from the two of them that It really depends on the woman that is getting the pleasure , in other words it depends on the woman and if she is willing to guide and give direction, otherwise , we guys will simply use the technique that happened to work best for the last woman that we were (suck-sessful) with. As for getting head, Ladies, you have got to speak up when we guys are pushing your heads down too much, because once again , some women like it when guys push their heads down like that, so we guys are only doing what was enjoyed with by both parties in another long ago fling, so ,if you arent into that then speak up!!


rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/23/2005 10:02 am

OK gang...I'm starting a Let's Kidnap Frisky campaign. Send money now!

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/23/2005 10:03 am

Jung...seriously...do you like me?

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/23/2005 10:17 am

T not yet

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/23/2005 10:18 am

OK now it is T

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/23/2005 10:20 am

Mustang maybe your local college offers a night course or something.

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/23/2005 10:22 am

Frosty...sometimes it is most helpful to rely on feedback at the moment. Adjust as per her response. You know if you're doing well...if she begins snoring...adjust.

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FunandFrisky79 41M/37F

8/23/2005 3:08 pm

TDA- Kidnap Frisky compaign?? What could you possibly want with lil ol me?

Is it really possible to kidnap the willing?

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
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8/25/2005 11:14 am

Frisky you'll have to offer resistance. Shout loudly..."Oh no...not the infamous kidnapping blogger!!" Remember...image is important here.

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