Just What Exactly IS Attractive?  

rm_talldarkavg1 105M
15586 posts
9/24/2005 10:02 am
Just What Exactly IS Attractive?

I have been reading again. I know, it's a dangerous practice for somebody like me. Knowledge is a powerful thing and I occasionally abuse it, but still...reading is what educated me about many of my inventions and it also leaves me with so many unanswered questions.

For instance, I was reading about some lady that was explaining the proper use of a butt plug. There's a proper use? How many places can a butt plug go? This is a perfect example of an unanswered question. Not where it goes, but why don't they have a digital butt plug? I mean one that has GPS capabilities? Certainly with that technology you wouldn't need instructions as to the proper use.

One unanswered question that seems to be fairly common is the age old...what makes a person attractive? Obviously to the pinheads on Madison Avenue it is 30 pounds underweight. To various pink magazines it's a vagina capable of housing an SUV. To some men it's a gorgeous body or face. I suspect women may like similar things. But usually it's a body part, or a body type.

I know several divorced people, myself included, and there is often a common thread or characteristic. I cannot think of a single divorced person that has a certain mental skill as a common thread. Granted some do have a mental thread like abusive they keep going back to, but not many are attracted to a specific mental skill or mental agility.

I am very attracted to personalities. I love clever and witty, a good sense of humor and reasonable I.Q. are big pluses. Of course for me...the PERFECT mate would be witty, clever, intellectual, funny, and have mental boobs. I'm telling you right now...she walks into my life and I'm a goner. Hmm, if you can figure out the attraction factor...you're gonna be a happy person.

[blog talldarkavg1]

xx_44DD_xx 51F

9/24/2005 10:32 am

Whoever gets your heart, will undoubtedly be the luckiest girl ever!!

UvannaHumpalot 37F

9/24/2005 10:39 am

wow....it's almost painful for me to tell you this, especially since you were discussing how I.Q.'s are an attraction for you.....but you spelled "plusses" wrong......this aside, the rest of your blog rocked!


9/24/2005 11:04 am

So many trip over themselves for looks, yes at one time or another , ok perhaps more. If you look past the outside , the inside holds much more.A sense of humor just has to be there,or else I`m in trouble lol.
However it is the person they are as a whole , not just the looks that is just icing on the cake of life.

rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
9/24/2005 11:08 am

44 DD are we talked transplants here?

[blog talldarkavg1]

rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
9/24/2005 11:09 am

LMAO Uvana...now you see why I NEED it in a mate!

[blog talldarkavg1]

rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
9/24/2005 11:46 am

Blonde you are so right. Tripping over looks or a penis is pointless. Contents...not container.

[blog talldarkavg1]

watchmesquirm 45F  
99 posts
9/24/2005 11:54 am

I find that my taste in men is much like my taste in music- eclectic and often times surprising. For me, it is often easier to say what I don't like than it is to describe the attributes or qualities that I do like!

rm_luke69iner 48M
3275 posts
9/24/2005 11:57 am

Darth Dad

I've actually found i'm able to be attracted to women when i've never seen a picture of them. I'm finding that i might be able to like a woman for who they are without knowing what they look like and i'm scared.

How can i fight the horrible prospect that i might be maturing.

S'io credesse che mia risposta fosse
A persona che mai tornasse al mondo,
Questa fiamma staria senza piu scosse.
Ma perciocche giammai di questo fondo
Non torno vivo alcun, s'i'odo il vero,
Senza tema d'infamia ti rispondo

digdug41 49M

9/24/2005 12:14 pm

yeah it's nice to find a complete package body and mind but in most cases one or the other isnt up to your standards so like eddie murphy put it years ago just find some one as fucked up as you are and go from there

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
9/24/2005 12:16 pm

Back in the day that I was interested in dating (tongue in cheekly stated) I said that there were 3 ingredients tht HAD to exist for an attraction to take place: Humor, brains and kindness. All things, including chemistry, flow from that combination. I think it's a matter of finding what one's own combination is. *

* Comment relavent to all women and 20% of straight men. For other 80%, see response: "4'11" 95 lb Asian woman on her 18th birthday"

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

rm_mtnravyn 60M
890 posts
9/24/2005 1:01 pm

TDA For me simple attractive is the facde or the wrapping, beautiful is the contents And without intelligence and a sense of humor how could they put up with us?

DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/24/2005 1:19 pm

Humor and looks are great "accessories." Intellect is what initially attracts me. Seduce me with your mind and I'll be your puppet.

rm_DaphneR 58F
7938 posts
9/24/2005 1:35 pm

As I state in my profile...looking for someone to stimulate my mind and possibly more.

BTW TDA, you chose the more common spelling of the plural of plus.

Main Entry: 2plus
Function: noun
Inflected Form(s): plural plus搪s /'pl&-s&z/; also plus新es

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.

rm_CookieLips2 61M

9/24/2005 2:21 pm

Hey TDA, Have you ever thought that when you change partners all you are really doing is changing your problems?

PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
9/24/2005 2:44 pm

Jeez, wahine. I seem to get that 80% of men in my life. Een the ones who find me attractive (like dark chocolate, cigars and wine, I am an acquired taste) usually don't stimulate my brain... and if my brain isn't stimulated, neither are my other erogenous zones.

I did meet someone here who fulfilled all the requirements, but he's stopped communicating these last couple of weeks... more of that in my blog, later... *sniffle*

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma

rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
9/24/2005 5:36 pm

You know somebody had to use that butt plug wrong or they wouldn't need directions, just like on shampoo bottles. Maybe they tried to shove it up in there sideways.

anchcpl4fun 40M/44F

9/25/2005 1:42 am

as a sex toy sales lady, you all would be very surprised at what some ppl do with those things......LMAO

FunandFrisky79 41M/37F

9/25/2005 11:56 pm

TDA- I'm with you on this one. I'm VERY attracted to personalities as well! And, a great sense of humor is a HUGE turn-on!

Laughter is the quickest way to MY heart!


Become a member to create a blog