ex's wish they would die  

rm_sweety_67 49F
44 posts
5/3/2006 4:27 am

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5/3/2006 4:36 pm

ex's wish they would die

hello been awhile since i wrote in here.. i have been haveing trouble with my ex. hub.and i had to get a restraining order on him to keep him away.. and james has been abig help he has beeen here for it all lord knows i wonder why..but i am very lucky to have james's help and all the help of my other friends to.. who if nothing else listen to me rant about it. about all the drama but it will work out for the best and i will be rid of my ex for good.. and will only have to see him every other weekend at the police station.. my court date is may 16th..

you know when you are used to living in a bad relationship then you do leave and when you have kids they still have to be around some. you learn to just deal with it.. and you forget that there is help out there and that you dont have to put up with assholes like him. and sunday when he rammed my car with his and he had my 10 year old son in the car with him. i have to protect my kids above all else yes my kids can be a pain in my butt..but they are mine and they are my world..my youngest son has A D H D AND O D D.. so yes he gets out of had at times sometimes his meds doesnt work.. like yesterday he drove poor james nuts..

but i also blame his dad he was raised arould it for so long. so he think its ok so i have double issues with him on this. back when i made the dession to send chris off to st louis for his behavor his dad kept telling everone wasnt anything wrong with him.. so we would go round and round about our son condition..

they put him on meds and its been over a year and half since any of it has been changed so his behavor is getting worse all the time.. so i am gonna have to take him back to the dr..

well i just want to thank all of those who listen me rant and rave and thank you james for being there for me and helping me.. you are a very good person.. he even said he would move in with me and help me deal with this.. that shows what kind of man he is.. but i take him home today.. he needs a break from all this drama in my life.. lord know he didnt ask to be put in the middle but with my ex and my kids they can dive anyone nut. but i am dealing with that and soon i wont have to worry about it.

as i said before thank you to all my friends that listend to me rant about all my shit. i have made some good friends from this site..


Goodtimes4u72 44M

5/3/2006 6:30 am

Hang in there and don't let your ex dictate to you about your child, because usually mothers know best. If your son needs to go to St. Louis for treatment then take him. Your ex will just have to deal with it and he really isn't thinking about the child anyway. Who in the right mind would ram someone's car on purpose with a child in the car. That's child endangerment. So do what you know is best for your child. And use James's help while it is available, because you never know if his hands are going to get tied up one day and not be able to assist you. Take care.


rm_sweety_67 49F
32 posts
5/3/2006 12:07 pm

thank yall so much for a long time i stayed in the marriage for my kids then left for my kids and now again im doing this for my kids.. and its good to know that i am not alone in this world..


rm_sweety_67 49F
32 posts
5/3/2006 4:36 pm

yes i know i have to do that but my week keeps getting sucker.. i am single again as of today.. oh well it got to get better


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