What we look for  

rm_sweetkycpl05 48M/46F
22 posts
8/8/2005 6:08 am

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What we look for

You all know those men who walk around holding themselves like someone is going to steal it. Well, buddy, if you have to hold it like that, I don't think anyone else is going to want it. It is not attractive to me to see them holding themselves, wearing their pants off the back of their behind and letting their shorts hang out. I can't even begin to tell you how many men I see that do this and not all of them are teenagers! I have seen men in their twenties and even a few in their thirties that do this. Guys wake up! You aren't a teenager anymore!

What I want is a man that looks good all over inside and out. A man who takes pride in his appearance. A nicely shaved or trimmed face. Hair that is well kept. A man who is fit or maybe has those few extra pounds but isn't so out of shape that he can't go the distance. I like a large variety of men. Tall, short, muscular, wide shoulders, there are just so many things. What is going to turn me off right away is being cocky, being all talk and no action, or trying to impress me by talking about the size of your member. A man that is intelligent and can carry on a good conversation about many subjects will get a long way with me.

What my hubby wants in a woman is something that is different from what most men want. He would like a lady that has a nice body. A lady with a nice behind that isn't too big or too small. A lady with nice boobs that aren't too big or too small. He said a lady that knows how to carry herself even if she has those extra pounds is just as good as a lady who is toned. He doesn't mind the stretch marks, beauty marks or imperfections because he looks beyond that. A lady who is intelligent and can carry on a conversation on something besides make up, hair or what she heard at work.

Neither of us are afraid to speak our minds. We talk about all kinds of things. We don't want people that are so into themselves that they can't look beyond what they want. You should be ready to please and be pleased. We aren't into pain or nasty sex. We are open to many things and you should be too.

So who else out there isn't looking for the Ken and Barbie experience?

goddessofbitches 41M/33F

8/12/2005 11:56 am

THat would be me. I am more interested in someone who can talk to me without long pauses or silences and who can kiss. In my expirience, if you look good, and you can't kiss, you can't possibily be good in the sheets. But that is just my opinion...lol


Always The Bitch

rm_sweetkycpl05 48M/46F
13 posts
8/17/2005 6:17 am

I agree, Mandy. A good conversation can be just as important as foreplay, in my opinion. A guy who doesn't kiss well isn't gonna know what else to do with his lips to make you feel good.

I love reading your blog. You are very honest and sound like a great lady!

rm_Trainer_Doc 46M
8 posts
1/12/2006 10:44 am

I found myself reading every post on your blog. You have many great points and really know what you want. So often when you read a blog it is just rambling thoughts. Not with you. Whether you think things through before writing, write and then edit or just type . . . you have really found your talent.

As for women, I look beyond the skin. The beauty of a woman is inside and what you find there will ultimately find its way into the bedroom. The same with men, I expect, but I haven't spent nearly as much time dwelling on that subject.

If you find what you enjoy, and both partners are happy, I say knock yourself out. So you don't want Ken and Barbie? There isn't anything wrong there. If you aren't going to be completely satisfied, don't waste your time!

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