I'm one of the lucky ones  

rm_steelangel_c 46F
21 posts
3/16/2006 10:05 pm

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7/27/2006 4:04 pm

I'm one of the lucky ones

I know there aren't alot of people on her that have much luck. I however have somehow hit the JACKPOT!!
My name is Traci and I have been on and off the site for about a year now (active for 6 months). My experiences have been for the most part fantastic to say the least.
The only downfall being..... all the men that tell me about the lack of responses and terrible waist of time and money this site has been. I was on here for a week before I had hundreds of messages but that isn't the case with the guys. In 6 active months I had over 16,000 messages and had to pretty much take my profile off.
I guess I was wondering how many other men dint get any responses and feel they're waisting time and money?
It sure would be nice if there were more REAL people out there for you guys to meet... or cost you any money.

LustGoddess2469 49F  
2453 posts
3/16/2006 10:34 pm

But there ARE real people here, and people get out of this site what they put into it. If someone joins the site and doesn't spend the time to READ profiles and send decent emails to people that match their interests or what they're looking for, then they have no one to blame but themselves. Yes, there are alot of fake profiles on here, and yes, there are alot of game players and time wasters (both male and female), but if you put in the effort, you will reap the benefits.


loadeddice05 44M

3/16/2006 11:07 pm

Very well said lustgoddess!! I am in total agreement!! I do think getting out and meeting people is so much more productive!! It takes huge monster balls!! But???

Very impressive steelangel!!! Have fun!!!

fmisvme 46M/36F

3/17/2006 8:40 am

We agree with the 3 posts above. We've had a lot of fun, we've had to dodge a few idiot males who either can't read or who don't respect what we've said in our profile and blog, but we figure those are the one's whining about not meeting anyone. There are good people everywhere, you just have to look for them.
Congrats steelangel and have fun

Rock Chalk Jayhawk!

rickyluvsfunn 50M
18 posts
3/17/2006 12:13 pm

well I can tell you I have been on here for a month...read the profiles....send decent emails that are respectful and still not much luck....but I am a patient man...

I do like to hear the success stories though....positive thoughts from positive people...

have a great st pattys

rm_ruinpussy 47M

3/18/2006 5:43 pm

You ladies can change our luck look me up and lets have some fun together

MONA_14 29F

3/19/2006 11:33 am

you are invited to be our Friends

rm_feelsgood53 65M

3/22/2006 11:29 am

I figured that females got alot more responses, but I had no idea! No wonder I get so few - which is why it is hard to justify paying for an upgrade.
I wouldn't mind hooking up with you as it appears that you are real. Check me out - give me a sign! I'll share more if you like!

rm_mkucream72 44M

3/24/2006 1:07 pm

It's true, the guys don't get anywhere near the responses the women get..and there is a lot of fake crap out there. I've had a good experience with the site..but I haven't paid anything either..ha,ha! It is totally different for the women! The men just have to be more patient...and you may land the big one...

ChubbyLovin4me 45M
61 posts
3/31/2006 10:36 pm

Was on here a couple years ago as a gold member. Never got any invites and got the run around a couple of times. It was a waste of money then. I'm just back to see if anything has changed.

its_me2002us 41M

4/3/2006 4:38 pm

Steelangel, U are lucky. I am not that lucky yet. I think the harder you try the more people respond to U.

Rhev 38M

4/6/2006 6:27 am

As a guy, I'm happy if I get one REAL response a month.

So far I've hooked up twice with AdultFriendFinder girls, but I know that women have a much easier time.

talenteddragon 59M

4/14/2006 8:46 am

I've actually had great success here. I've made some FWB's(friends with benefits)and I also have friends in various locations who I can contact when I'm in their city or town.
I have been a member since 2000 and I have had experiences with couples and single females. It takes patience,articulation of your desires,and close reading of many profiles.
I can't understand how any man can complain about the cost of silver or gold membership,after all its less than the cost of a large pizza,two orders of buffalo wings and a six pack.Plus its a sign of your seriousness.
There are many beautiful women here,they outnumber the fakes and we men have to remember that.Just look at the lovely ladies who have posted here.

rm_rightknown7 42M
2 posts
4/22/2006 6:57 am

i also live in horseheadsand ihave not meet asingle perosnlive ornotbut i havenot put that much effort into this

soldierboy12061 49M
44 posts
5/15/2006 4:28 pm

I have been on for 5 months now. I have had about 30 replies to emails that I have sent out, and I have meet three nice women, hooked up with one a few times for some good sex, and had one lovely women make me a great dinner!

I agree that being a Gold member shows that you are serious, and dragon said it best, it cost less then pizza, wings and a 6 pack, so I find it worth it.

I do have to say however that steelangel is one lucky and HOT women. I have read your testimonials and the people you have hooked up all say you are the BEST! Maybe you and I can hook up some time this summer.

last3x 54M

5/18/2006 1:35 pm

i agree with lusty havent had any luck yet meet a few freinds that i chat with and will drive up and see on a weekend but shes 6hrs away but i think she is worth it and she feels the same just have to weed your way thur and see what happens steel angel is just luckyer i guess good for her

crazyscreennames 46M

6/15/2006 10:42 pm

I think I'd have to agree with just about eveyone's posts. There are a lot of fakes on here and women most definately get A LOT more responses than men. But if you read what people are telling you & don't waste their time; if you're persistent, patient and a little bit creative most guys can do alright. As is the case with most of life patience, persistence, and a positive attitude will usually get you where you're trying to go. Traci, you are hot little lady! How about getting together? ...maybe going for a Sunday afternoon ride on my bike or something?

wine_sugar_sex 34M
55 posts
11/20/2006 6:10 pm

I'm gonna sound like a punk but I agree with steelangel I had to delete my first profile too because men can't read when you write that you are straight and they just keep bombing you with gay proposition so it is worse for a woman!!! And add to that the fact that most of the message are 15 years old guys laughing in front of their computer and you'll understand that encounters are better in life and the site is just a little spice in it.

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