my date  

rm_starbowler2 52M
49 posts
3/3/2006 12:58 am

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3/10/2006 6:25 am

my date


Just got back from my date.It was a lot of fun.....we went out to dinner ( not red lobsterLO,went to a movie and then went out to a nice cozy out of the way place she knew about.All in all the date was the best I've had in over two years.The only problem with the date was at the out of the way place....we sat with a bunch of her age friends (shes 20),and I felt very out of place but still had fun.The end of the date is the part I hate cause I never know what to do...do I lean in for a kiss and offend her if shes not wanting a kiss or do I not and offend her when she wants a kiss??? Well,I walked her to her apartment and she kissed me on the cheek and said that she had a "nice" time and went inside.Am I reading too much into this or did I just got blown off again??? I stood there a little confused wondering if I did something wrong during the date to get a "nice" out of it.I am going to call her friday night and tell her that I had fun and see if another date is ok.Wish me luck...I think I'll need it.

SpaceRangerNJ 55M
4687 posts
3/3/2006 7:28 am

Ya got to watch the movie "Hitch". He explains the goodnight kiss thing. Well I hope what he said is true. I never know either. Remember, it was probably stressful for both of you. Did you get much time to get to actually know her? In a movie you don't talk. In a group of people you might not get much one-on-one quality conversation. What other things does she like to do? Bowling? That's a place where you are real comfortable and you can shine. Are you a good patient teacher if she needs help? Do you both like outdoor stuff? Comedy shows? Think of a real creative second date.
Ok ladies, help him out. What should he do?
Good luck.
SR


DazieMayorMatNot 61F

3/8/2006 6:01 pm

So did she go watch you bowl on Sunday?.. Ya did invite didn't ya?... oops maybe I am mistaken.....


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