can a good guy get the girl ??  

rm_starbowler2 52M
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6/22/2005 5:04 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

can a good guy get the girl ??

Hi to all that have picked to read my "blog".Not really sure what the hell a "blog" is but thought it was worth a try*wink*.
I am a 40 year old guy who has only been in one relationship my whole life......meet her when we were both 8 years old ( yes, 8 years old) ,we lived next to each other in the trailer park in blaine,mn. As we grew up together,we fell in love.....and started dateing since we were both 12.That all ended on june 14th,2002 .....when a drunk driver hit her....2nd saddest day in my life.....the 1st was july 22nd of 2004 when my dad died of a heart attack ( he was my best friend). Well,I took 3 years off to "find myself" and get to know ME , the person and to make sure I was ready for dateing again.......thought this was a good site,but I believe that I am too nice and too much of a gentalmen to get a lot of notice on here.I just wonder if its cause I'm too old (40) ,too fat 265lbs (was 400 a year ago), too "short" in that department *wink,wink*, or that I am just too picky.Or am I just feeling sorry for myself.I don't know,but I am giveing it another try for this year and see what happens.I am sometimes too busy with work and outside activaties ( I bowl professionaly) to find the time to date.I am a very sexual person....I just do not like to sleep around ( nice choice of a site for that,huhh??).My whole idea of a great date involves a good dinner,a play or musical,a nice walk around a park or lake and some cuddling....I am just too old fashion I guess.I wonder if there are young women out there that like that...and like to spend time with a older guy.....yes I would like to date a younger women.....just because I feel so young at heart......wonder if that makes me a "dirty old man" lol.Well....thats about it for now,but I will add more when I think of some.


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