i guess nobody knows  

rm_snora52068 48F
6 posts
7/28/2005 10:32 pm

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i guess nobody knows

and can answer this question...very interesting...


rm_YoungGun2010 48M
3 posts
8/8/2005 11:50 pm

That's a very good question which I've been pondering for awhile. I, too, am about to give up on trying to...what? Find someone compatible? decent? One part of the problem is this is a site for those looking for sex and sex only. Secondly, some people are all talk and some just want a sugar daddy. Personally, as a SWM who only wants to date interracially, I'd have better odds playing the lottery. Of course, my location has something to do with that.
That said, like you asked how difficult is it to find someone who is intelligent, honest, employed, d/d free who wants a relationship and just happens to not be uptight in the bedroom? Isn't that all we're asking for? Penny for your thoughts.


rm_888kkk 48M

9/11/2005 1:40 am

Hi there

You are right. The answer is that most people are acting.
I always say: "Be Yourself, a little bit More".

Have a nice day


rm_Mr_Funtagasm 57M
1 post
9/18/2005 2:52 am

sWEETHEART THE ANSWER TO YOUR QUESTION IS VERY SIMPLE..YOU ARE NOT SEEKING A MAN, BUT A MALE...THE DIFFERENCE IS...MEN HONOR THEIR WORD. tHE QUESTION YOU SHOPULD ASK YOURSELF IS....DO I REALLY WANT A REAL MAN?, MOST BLACK WOMEN DON'T....THE REASON BEING THEY HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO RELATE TO ONE...WE ARE NOT FIGMENTS OF THE FEMALE IMAGINATION, BUT WHEN WOMEN KEEP TRYING TO TURN US INTO THEIR OWN PERSONAL FANTASY OF A MAN IT TURNS US OFF AND CLAMS US UP. tHAT WAY WE DON'T WASTE OUR OR ANY OTHER WOMANS'TIME. uNFORTUNATELY THIS OPENS THE DOOR FOR A LYING CHEATING, SLUG OF A MALE TO COME IN AND PRETEND TO BE A MAN. AND, SINCE MOST WOMEN CAN'T TELL THE DIFFERENCE, THEY GET FUCKED, THEN FRUSTRATED.....MY QUESTION IS...DO YOU KNOW YOURSELF AS A WOMAN? AND WHAT KIND OF MAN DOES YOUR WOMAN NEED?...EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT, AND EVERYTHING ISN'T FOR EVERYBODY!


Enigman70 46M

10/14/2005 3:33 am

snora,

couldn't help but notice your posting. I don't know the original question you asked because it doesn't appear on this page. I presume it was about people who are game players etc. Honestly, I don't think many people can handle the TRUTH. Some cannot show their realness for fear of being rejected. Some use fakeness as a way to get what they want.......in essence, my experience has taught me to go against the grain.....and be more open and honest about who I am. If the right woman comes along and can handle the "real me" then that's a very good thing........

Be truthful, open and honest in your search, and I am certain that the right guy will be the same in return. You know what they say...."what goes around...comes around"....


penthse_rider 60M

10/23/2005 2:07 am

As a male I would consider myself capable of a comment or 2. The main proble may be that I will for the most part take an opposing view of most men. You see, having a sister or three...........what most men miss is the point of being able to read between the lines. Yes, hear what is not said and just listen. I'm not one to profess my being correct or right, and my opion is just that, mine.

This a woman who needs more than a man who can spell or speak correctly (damn spell check when U need it). If only she was closer.....


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