Why do we stay? Why do we stray?  

rm_smilinkittie 47F
4 posts
11/26/2005 5:16 pm

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Why do we stay? Why do we stray?

I'm so tired of all the same 'ole sex....I'm getting so bored I cant see straight...I'm finding it harder to orgasm now...and I dont like that one bit......


11/26/2005 7:23 pm

Never been married but ...

Why do we stay?
Out of sheer habit?

Why do we stray?
Out of sheer boredom?

Just my quick guesses.


bigjoe341970 46M
1 post
11/26/2005 7:29 pm

made what u need is change

needahotwethole 46M
12 posts
11/26/2005 7:59 pm

I don"t know how long your married or anything else about you,But one thing I have found out in life most of our questions and answers can be found in a house hold item.A mirror. The real question, are you ready to look in it??I'm not saying your're the one at fault I'm saying choices,timing,options,heart,and mind all play a part in where we are in this the world.Everybody deserves to be happy,but it starts with yourself.

2curiouspeople4u 59M/112F
8 posts
11/26/2005 8:31 pm

one mans view point....been married for 11 years now, first 4 were great, next 3 changes began, last 4 have been of complacency...in the beginning we were open to anything that brought us pleasure and we fucked like bunnies, we could not get enough of each other, anyplace anytime...never thought this would end...middle of year 5 she decides she does not want to give or receive oral any longer, we both showered before we made love so it could not have been due to funky smells, next it was cut down to just a couple of times per week as opposed to 3 or 4 times per day. i talked about the changes without being judgemental or demanding, no use, couple of years ago we tried pornos again... she fixated on gay porn and only wanted to watch those, requested i try a male for her so i did, anything to bring her back and i'd done a male or 2 at earlier ages so no big deal...result was her joinig in then shutting down to once a month only....so...i'm back to feeling that if it's not working and my partner does not want to discuss or deal with this aspect of our lives then i will fulfill these urges/desires as they present themselves.....cheating? maybe, but so is her denial

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