My experiences and all the fakes/scams  

rm_slow69motion 46M
3 posts
2/16/2006 12:41 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

My experiences and all the fakes/scams

So, I joined the site hoping to meet people and not go through the long process from some other dating sites. The concept of AdultFriendFinder sounds good, but I found out how the site really works...

BEGIN: You are someone(guy or girl) in a 3rd world country, Africa has alot, but any 3rd world country can work. You come to AdultFriendFinder to prey on unsuspecting horny folks looking for a date. Now start out with some male model pictures and make your fake standard profile, then wait for the women to email you with your cropped Brad Pitt pictures where you cut the head off. Also get some pics of monster cocks from porn movies and crop the titles out of them. Then have these women send you pics of themselves, nude or exposed if possible.

STEP 2: Take your pics from the women and make fake ads for the guys to see. Guys, being more cautious, would spot model or professional pictures easily, so you need to use the homegrown softporn pics you have extracted from the ladies above.

STEP 3: Now request an email address from some place other the the AdultFriendFinder system so you can send a link to a pay site to extract someone's credit card info. Once you have the credit card info, you are set. They will charge it way up, and since it is overseas and you did volunteer the CC number, you will have to go through hell to get your cash back. If you think it is hard to dispute a local merchant, imagine trying to dispute someone in Nigeria or Sudan...

STEP 4: They will then have you call them overseas, numbers starting with a +01 number, because these people make a cut of the phone charges, kinda like a 900 number. So the customer service calls are toll calls they also make money on.

STEP 5: DO NOT renew on AdultFriendFinder, find a site that actually police's there ads.

I am not sure of AdultFriendFinder gets a cut of what these scam artist make, or if they just neglect to do anything.

Out of 58 sent messages, I got 1 real phone number. Out of 160 messages, I have yet to meet anyone. Am I ugly? Look at my profile, you decide. I have emailed every type of woman on the site, even the BBW, none of them respond except for the scammers. If there was not scammers, I wonder if there would be anyone at all on AdultFriendFinder?

sweetesthunny 47F

2/22/2006 10:27 am

I checked out your ad and you don't appear to be ugly but I am one of those "even the BBW". Why didn't you put "even the skinny-Minnies"? Oh I'm sure it's because you prefer the skinnies over the BBW. Are you sending emails to the BBW just in the hopes of finding anyone?? Are you really gonna hook-up with a BBW? And if you do is it gonna be a "pity fuck"? Oh the poor BBW couldn't find anyone else so she'll be lucky to be with me. Is that the kind of outlook you have about this? I have met people and not all have been wonderful, memorable experiences so there are people on here that are for real even some that are BBW.

rm_goddess1946 106F
13518 posts
2/27/2006 10:30 am

Wow...sorry to hear you have had all of that crazy stuff happen.
I've met lots of wonderful people from AdultFriendFinder...not anyone I'm ready
to leave the country with but alot of nice people just the same.
I have also met fellow bloggers that have become really good friends.
Best of luck in your search...Goddess

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

rm_slow69motion 46M
1 post
2/27/2006 2:06 pm

Dear Sweetesthunny,

I don't think you are a BBW, maybe full figured, but not BBW. Who told you that you were? Did they see your pics or base that on a clothing size?

I just reviewed your pics again, you look size proportionate, I could give a BBW example, but it would not be you.

And by the way, bigger than me I would say is a BBW, you don't seem that big honey.



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