Double Edge Sword?  

rm_sinful01forU 40M
41 posts
5/30/2006 12:02 am

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Double Edge Sword?

Why is it that if a man lets people know (or its obvious) that he finds something about a woman attractive he is thought to be a pervert, but if people don't find out he is thought to be gay, you ask?

Well, here's my opinion (and you can take it with a grain of salt). Women are very complicated, and in my experiences' they want you to be two things at once. They want you to be that perv and yet they still need that sophisticated male friend that they can let everything out and not have to worry that you are going to cast sexual overtones on. They want a balance of the a friend and a lover. I'm not saying that you have to "walk the line" but rather know when it's the right time to cross that line from side to the other. Most women will not admit that they need a perv but they do. They don't want that perv in you to come out all the time. Just when that mood strikes them in the right way do they long for that perv and thats when you should show her your deviant depraved side, and its definitely not the time for that best friend side to be shining. And she isn't going to tell you, so you have to learn to read the signs of when its the time to her best friend and when its the time to let the animal in you come out and be seen. Then there are the times that she needs your support as a friend that you should put a ball gage in the mouth of that little devil on your shoulder, and simply be there for her.

Comments, objections, further in-site welcome.


Silver_Surfer86 30M
32 posts
5/30/2006 1:34 am

I'd say you're complicating the simple.

Firstly, it's quite hard to generalize women. When you do, you always screw up.
Secondly, knowing your woman is the first step to winning her and being able to show that raunchier side of yourself. You must know her limits and her tolerances.
Thirdly, when you know these limits and play when the moment is right, sometimes you can bend the rules a little.

"Three easy steps." I'd say it's about knowing both yourself and, more-over, her. Manipulating the moment to your desires comes when you have an understanding. The ultimate question is: when do you know enough?


rm_sinful01forU 40M
117 posts
5/30/2006 3:35 am

    Quoting Silver_Surfer86:
    I'd say you're complicating the simple.

    Firstly, it's quite hard to generalize women. When you do, you always screw up.
    Secondly, knowing your woman is the first step to winning her and being able to show that raunchier side of yourself. You must know her limits and her tolerances.
    Thirdly, when you know these limits and play when the moment is right, sometimes you can bend the rules a little.

    "Three easy steps." I'd say it's about knowing both yourself and, more-over, her. Manipulating the moment to your desires comes when you have an understanding. The ultimate question is: when do you know enough?
If you had read what I said you would have know that that's perty close to what I had said, except for the malipulating, and the simple, and when do you know enough parts (you can never know too much, in my opinion) but thanks for your input.


ArgosPlumyKooky 45F
3902 posts
5/30/2006 6:51 pm

well my dear i think you've NAILed it. and quite well


rm_sinful01forU 40M
117 posts
6/4/2006 4:47 pm

    Quoting sweetbabydee07:
    Hm, I think you know what you're talking about.

    Why 'nice guys' always complain that women go for bastards; nice guys think they have to keep their inner perv well hidden. Bastards are happy to let it all hang out. We need pervs, but not many guys can perform the necessary balancing act between righteous and depraved. I've only met one or two, and OMG are they fantastic guys to know!

    What is the equivalent balance that a female needs to learn, do you think?
In my opinion, most guys are happy when their partner(s) lets their perv out. However, there are times when a man wants nothing more than to get something important to them accomplished. Now, for the most part sexual advances during this activity will not be turned down, but might be frowned upon later; and the male will be kicking myself in the ass. This is just my personal opinion because I don't pretend to talk for all men only the way I see it. So, take this one with a grain of salt until more mens' thoughts on that one can be amassed.


TripleHARD3 57M

6/15/2006 9:10 pm

nice 2 see an open mind unlike sum of your posses' claims' 2 know ignorance(oxymoron)and equating it with evil....knowingly being ignorant of ignorants is real mindf*cking but evil choosing 2 be is i can not say evil because i don't believe in it (hence evil is nothing but is nothing evil ask myself that)...at a loss for woRds other than i know nothing imagine that and nothing IS greater then knowledge using north2thefutures' own woRds...so if i know nothing i am quinessential ignorance thus evil personified...damn i think she has made a believer out of me or has she...ask yourself what is greater than evil...nothing of course which begs thee question am i nothing is thee answer..... end of story.

hey eve n i am amused so why not let me in since the future is now (i 2 am a scientist zoologist biochemist neuroscientist spcialization in molecular neuropathology who traded knowledge for nothing and got nothing but knowledge in return go figure


TripleHARD3 57M

6/15/2006 9:30 pm

    Quoting Silver_Surfer86:
    I'd say you're complicating the simple.

    Firstly, it's quite hard to generalize women. When you do, you always screw up.
    Secondly, knowing your woman is the first step to winning her and being able to show that raunchier side of yourself. You must know her limits and her tolerances.
    Thirdly, when you know these limits and play when the moment is right, sometimes you can bend the rules a little.

    "Three easy steps." I'd say it's about knowing both yourself and, more-over, her. Manipulating the moment to your desires comes when you have an understanding. The ultimate question is: when do you know enough?
'complicating the simple' i agree with a good example being 'its hard 2 generalize women' in other woRds doublethink; believing 2 know women 'her limits and tolerances' is not knowing that you and your self knowledge are being manipulated by her desire, in other woRds she is in control since eve ate thee apple of her is' 2 answer your question "when do u know enough?' when u know nothing because nothing is greater than knowledge.....

thanx for the inspiration
TripleHARD3
(ask me if u dare i will share)


TripleHARD3 57M

6/15/2006 9:50 pm

    Quoting sweetbabydee07:
    Hm, I think you know what you're talking about.

    Why 'nice guys' always complain that women go for bastards; nice guys think they have to keep their inner perv well hidden. Bastards are happy to let it all hang out. We need pervs, but not many guys can perform the necessary balancing act between righteous and depraved. I've only met one or two, and OMG are they fantastic guys to know!

    What is the equivalent balance that a female needs to learn, do you think?
of course i think that is 2 question the question 2 your answer don't you think 2 use a favorite euphenysm getting better with age 'an apple a day keeps the doctor away'; check your premises 2 see knowledge is NOT power when the other knows nothing i no u think????

TripleHARD3
2 think or not 2 think is 2 doublethink doublethink i think can u?


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