Too nice is it possible?  

rm_shygirl42240 46F
32 posts
12/21/2005 9:03 am

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Too nice is it possible?

I need to know if I am maybe just too nice of a person to find someone who appreciates me and wants to treat me like I deserve to be treated. Not a good day to be a man in my life

Just4Fun6003 45M

12/21/2005 9:33 am

Every woman deserves to be trated like a lady. You will find someone that appreciates you for who you are. Not all men will take advantage of you.

surf54thStreet 48M
6 posts
12/21/2005 9:34 am

Can you be too nice? Well yes of course you can.
If you are you start getting treated like a doormat.

rm_need4fire2 64M

12/21/2005 9:37 am

No...nice people attract nice people..some people just dont know how to reward nice people with kindness..hang in there!! and keep those standards up there.

norprin5 55M

12/21/2005 9:38 am

no such thing as too nice, darlin'. your prince will come!

King Nor XVIII


12/21/2005 9:40 am

I'm sure you must already know this but one thing men have almost no skill at all with is in guessing how a woman might like to be treated. So in that regard you really have somehow let him know this or else search for one who is stone cold psychic.

The psychic ones do exist but are quite rare. But so are the women who seem to have the proper skills for letting a man know what she really wants.

This ain't anything they ever taught in school for either sex but lucky for us all it does seem to really be something that you can now learn from reading someones blog who expresses themself well enpough.

Just keep bloggimg honestly and expressively and eventually someone should know exacly what you want and expect.

And don't try fighting the useless war of the sexes. It's always a losing battle no matter which side you choose to be on with it. Taking sides in the war of the sexes is no different than shooting yourself in the foot.

Good luck, we all need it here.



pussetinfool0 50M
5 posts
12/21/2005 9:50 am

shygirl i used to think that maybe i was too nice or weak to become involved in this type of sight!Well, i knew i had come to a decision. First i'm a horny,highly sexed man that wants to try anything.i'm not bad looking,have a good body and,well maybe not the biggest cock i've seen on here but i handle myself well!! i'm saying you have to decide what you're looking for.if you want some gentle introduction to become a sexy,sensual being ,then change your profile!,say it!Make your desires known! We can only tell you're too shy because you say so!Hell i'm a little bit backward,awkward at times but i want to go for it!!! DO YOU?

Troublemaker1970 46M
2 posts
12/21/2005 9:53 am

Well you might what to explain your self a little more you might be or you might not be and if you are and if someone has done you wrong SORRY and if you need some one to talk to I'm here and I know I'm a man and like you said not the best time but I do have a good sholder if needed or you can just BITCH at me about someone else if it will make you fell better.

NickRules999 39M
9464 posts
12/21/2005 9:55 am

I, myself, often wonder if it's possible to be too nice. When women talk about me, I keep hearing "He's a nice guy, but he's not my type," and it gets really frustrating. I took a look at my profile, and saw the maybe I came off as too nice. So, I rewrote it. Still a ncie guy, but tired of the bullshit.

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?

hotandhorny107 58F

12/21/2005 10:13 am

Sometimes it just takes a while to find the right one... And we all have this kind of day once in a while...

WildPussyMaster 61M
3 posts
12/21/2005 10:46 am

It is unfortunate that at least with men... in the US and possibly Canada, women equate nice as being weak. The one big turn-off is the part where women start touting how they deserve this or that they deserve that... they don't deserve anything they don't earn... Men are getting very tired about how selfish women have become in the US

rm_shasta96094 59M
67 posts
12/31/2005 12:22 am

Always tries to be curtious to all, seems I too have been too nice, and finding myself in that Last place again!

AlwaysActive34 83M
110 posts
1/13/2006 1:33 am

... Good guys DO finish first!
... Some of us are willing to guarantee a fun time, sometimes being somber with enough times being cocky and funny - always being secure with being ourselves - being a sincere listener who actually hears - always interested in our partner - honest - open - and with just enough mystery to keep you interested but never wondering - firm and gentle - enough "Bad Boy" to keep you happy and enough sincerity to let you know that we're reliable and constant - a willing provider and an appreciative receiver. We can pamper you with what you want and let you be free to be yourself. We won't let you disgust yourselves with giving us crap, and we'll delight you with treating you better than you have ever been treated by anyone else. You'll be psychologically relaxed and physically aroused, comfortable and sensual. If there's mutual "chemistry", you'll always know that you're loved and that you are the most important woman in the world - you'll be a very special person who is desired and lusted for, and you will be filled with desire and lust. You'll be excited and exciting - with every moment of the day, from morning to night. You'll be snug and snuggled. You'll be able to give all that you want to give and always feel that you want to give more because you'll know that you are being given endlessly - unbounded love and respect. Other than that, you'll just have to struggle along and put up with it all. It's a tough life, but some women just have to do it.

AlwaysActive34 83M
110 posts
1/14/2006 12:07 am

OK, so someone disagrees with me.... but with what part of what I said?

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