Is it worth it?  

rm_shy_ca_guy 38M
2 posts
2/12/2006 8:08 am

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Is it worth it?

I've been wondering if this site is worth all the hassle. When I write people, they don't write back. When I try to IMC people in my network, I get no response. And lately I've been seeing more and more ladies with fake pics on there profile. So I ask, is it worth it?

rm_cjcj9 41F
188 posts
2/12/2006 9:37 am

I'm with ya!! I will answer the women' side of this and I don't know if that will help. I have quit looking and just entertain myself with the blogs. As a woman, I was getting 50+ emails a day, and it is hard to keep up. The number one reason is because most of those men are ridiculous and write the worst things and having to sort through that to get to the decent ones is too much. I get emails saying they IMC'd me and I have no idea what that means. I don't have an IM thing. I don't know what they are talking about and never does anything pop up to say someone wants to talk to me. My pic isn't fake, so I can't answer that one for you, but I will say that even with real pics, chances are they won't look like that in person. Most people I know that have met people from here say they don't look like their pics. I have met 3 (2 women, 1 man) Only 1 woman looked like I expected her to look and the man looked better in real life than he did in his pic, but I think that is rare. So, after all that I doubt I helped you any, but thought I would try!!

moonlightphoenix 45F
6508 posts
2/12/2006 10:56 am

I have met a lot of people (especially guys) who look way better in person than in their pics. Pics are 2D and unanimated. People are 3 D and usually Talking on the phone is a much better way for me to tell if I want to meet or not.

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