The way to my rabbit hole (The red pill or the blue pill)  

rm_shortsweet98 36F
55 posts
7/11/2005 12:00 pm

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The way to my rabbit hole (The red pill or the blue pill)

Why is it that on a site such as this one, some people assume that they don't have to project any kind of decorum or decency? I am constantly amazed at the number of emails I get that read, 'let me see those t**s' or 'when do I get a chance to lick that a**?' from people that I haven't even started a correspondence with. I admit, I like dirty talk probably as much as the next person, but that's usually after I've already met that person, we've gotten to know each other, we've made a connection, etc, etc. Do men (and some women, I might add) actually think that this is the first step to get to know someone, let alone get them into bed? I don't know about anyone else, but a person's mind as well as their body is attractive to me; and actions such as this just makes me think that the person is lacking in intelligence. If I honestly was the type of person who got all horny by introductory catcalls such as these, I would be out at the clubs every night, trying to find the first loser with that 'hey baby' look in his(or her)eye to take home, only to be disappointed when I discover that their skills in the sack is only slightly better than their come-on lines.

Now that I've had my little rant, I have a few questions to pose to my fellow adultfriendfinders....what kind of emails do you hate to get on this site? What kind intrigues you to respond?

kleenfun2 53M
1 post
7/11/2005 2:31 pm

I like your perspective. I, admittedly, came to this site out of horniness (duh) and tintillation but I am intrigued by what I've learned here. Though I haven't become a paying member, nor met anyone using the site, I find that some of the blogs are very educational. Like the one by the straight guy who has a fascination with penises at the moment (see tapinsoftly blog). And your comments today which are smart and show some brains.
I can't answer your question about emails since I'm not a member but appreciate your sentiment regarding the "porky's" type of one-liner's that so many people lead with on this site.
I'll try and keep up with your blog.

rm_shortsweet98 36F
34 posts
7/14/2005 12:53 am

Kleenfun....Thanks. I'm sure at least some people on this site feel the same way I do. We all join this site, at least partly, out of horniness; I know I did. But I feel emails are a way to introduce yourself and set up meetings to see if the chemistry is there. Once you get to know the person, then you can get down and dirty. One of the one-liner bandits wrote 'but this IS a sex site" - which is true. But my point is this: which person would you be more inclined to meeting - the person who emails 'so when are we going to f**k?', or the person who emails 'Hi, my name is ____, I saw your profile, I'm interested'...etc. But then again, whether you're at a club, or talking to people online: it takes all types.........I'm not going to be attracted to them all.

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