Wink Rant...  

GraspCrownRusts 46M
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12/6/2005 9:20 am

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Wink Rant...

This is the text from a post I just responded to in one of the groups I belong to, but I think it applies to everyone, so I thought I'd plop it up on here to meet a broader audience, if possible.

Someone in the group made a posting on taking a chance with people by responding to winks once you get them. Two pages of opinions later, I made my response...


We wink because we cannot email others as standard members. Pretty simple.

If you are blessed with the ability to view a profile, then I am officially jealous. If you are even further blessed with the ability to email other members unsolicited, then you SUCK!

Nah, just take a second and seize the opportunity to respond to a wink if you have the ability and it looks sorta promising. It'd make the system work better for everyone (in my humble opinion).

I know, I know - "Steve you're a dumbass because if I responded to all the winks I get it'd take all dayum day long!" For me, I've gotten 6, yes 1,2,3,4,5,6 winks in the past 90 days, so I am sure my perspective from the female side isn't really in line with reality. All I am saying is take a chance with "the winkers" if you have the opportunity from time to time.


I think that pretty much sums up my opinion on the whole "wink" thing.

Wish I did have the ability at this time to email freely, view profiles, etc. but I can't. I still think I'm a valuable person to get to know. I offer a bunch - and not "just sex" to others and I think if more folks took a chance on a "winker" or two from time to time, it'd make all of our experiences on here just a smidgen richer...

Just my 12 cents...

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