Me? Selfish? Perhaps...  

GraspCrownRusts 46M
738 posts
7/20/2006 7:37 am

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Me? Selfish? Perhaps...


I can be selfish sometimes, but maybe not the way you're thinking though...

There are certain activities I really enjoy. We all have our favorites. When I am with someone my selfishness sometimes clouds my thoughts and steers me to a certain extent. I guess I allow it sometimes - maybe too much.

I enjoy oral sex. Really, really do. Giving oral sex. Licking, probing, enjoying, pleasuring a pussy is among my favorite things in life. If I had to make a song about "My Favorite Things" ala the Von Trapps in The Sound of Music, I would include savoring a woman orally in there somewhere I am sure.

Believe it or not, I'm selfish about it sometimes. I'm embarrassed to admit that I've just come to the realization that some women don't enjoy receiving it as much as I enjoy giving it - but there I always am trying to change their mind and see the true error in their thinking....lol. I'm a mess sometimes when my tongue gets within range of a naked woman.

I'm trying to learn to let go of that desire - explore some other stuff. Heck, I hear that some women even enjoy giving oral satisfaction to their men! Who knew? Looking back on it now, I can recall a few times being with a woman who seemed to really enjoy her "work" down there. I can appreciate them now. Wish I would have appreciated their craft more at the time...

Oh well, I'm trying... Is there a 12-step program for this addiction?

Ever-evolving,
Stevo!

Cozy_Red 50F

7/20/2006 9:15 am

*blush* ummmmm Yes there is a few of us that Love to give oral satisfaction too, and I am NOT one to give advice about this subject... Im waiting for a 12 step group for it also.

*posts signs* Oral fixation group to the right






GraspCrownRusts 46M
780 posts
7/20/2006 9:57 am

    Quoting Cozy_Red:
    *blush* ummmmm Yes there is a few of us that Love to give oral satisfaction too, and I am NOT one to give advice about this subject... Im waiting for a 12 step group for it also.

    *posts signs* Oral fixation group to the right
Ugh. Just as I expected - It's an epidemic....

Glad I'm not the only one though. Thanks for your bravery in coming forward to stand with me on this...lol.

Together we can make a difference.

Unless we don't wanna... Why change? I don't think I'm quite ready to change yet. I better wait to enter the program until I'm ready to see it through.

Is this the denial part?... hmmm...

OFA (Oral Fixators Anonymous) meeting at my place later on...


rm_abutoo2 44M
1078 posts
7/20/2006 3:30 pm

lickers anonymous... good luck. one lick is too many and a thousand not enough!


Addy19742 42F

7/20/2006 9:46 pm

LOL! I agree with abutoo2 Likers anonymous! Hang in there!


GraspCrownRusts 46M
780 posts
7/21/2006 6:51 am

OMG! I never knew the problem was soooo widespread! Er, maybe we shouldn't all get together in the same room then - who knows what would happen!

...how do the AA people keep it from becoming a kegger in the parking lot after the meeting? - I mean all the talk - gotta stir some folks up...

I am working on the problem without the meetings currently... practice, practice, practice...

Happy Friday, everyone!


Cozy_Red 50F

7/21/2006 7:40 am

Thanks to whoever came up with the 69 position, its perfect for two ppl who cant wait to get their turn! *wonders how yer practicing!*






GraspCrownRusts 46M
780 posts
7/21/2006 7:57 am

    Quoting Cozy_Red:
    Thanks to whoever came up with the 69 position, its perfect for two ppl who cant wait to get their turn! *wonders how yer practicing!*
Don't get me started on the wonders of 69 right now... Although, I find myself focused on my work often times during it, that it makes it hard to enjoy the other end of the equation as much...

"Practicing" is amounting to visualization techniques at the moment... lol... but I am always searching for the right research partner to help me work through these tough times...


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