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Is it fair for us guys?
Is it fair for us guys?
I've been reading a bunch of posts in the last couple of day in different places and have seen more than a few guys who are frustrated with trying to make contacts on here.
Hey, I'm not a whiner - at all. But make no mistake - it is difficult, at best, for a guy who is a standard member to stand out from the crowd.
Let me give you a list of reasons why and then let me give you a few solutions to help out some.
The first thing stacked against us is the 10-to-1 guy to gal ratio on here. Fellas, these poor gals are being hammered by useless winks and dumb emails saying something to the effect of "let's hook up". They are equally as frustrated with being overwhelmed as the guys are with not making any contact...lmao Talk about opposite ends of the spectrum!
The second thing against us is the fact that standard members cannot send emails or view profiles. Women complain that guys who didn't read their profile try to contact them - well, guess what? They couldn't read it. They just took a stab in the dark based on what they do know: age, location, gender, and possibly a picture.
I could go on, but I won't. I'm not here to bitch - I'm here to help...lol. I wouldn't still be on AdultFriendFinder since 1998 if I didn't ever have any "success", ya know?
Guys, work smarter, not harder.
Join groups. Post intelligently in the groups.
Start a blog. Be fun. Be insightful. Be yourself.
Go to the chat rooms. Don't ever post anything or email anything similar to "wanna hook up?"
Understand that "I am not interested" is not an open invitation to defend yourself...lol.
How about a picture of something other than your woody? PUUUHHHLLLEEEAAASSSEEEE!!!
Anyhow, these are just a few things that will help not only you, but all of the rest of us on here.
11/15/2005 1:10 pm
Start a blogg
Silky will read it
She will pass on the info about a sexy male blogging to others
You will get popular hehe
Brilliant post babes
Love silky xxxxxxxxxx
11/15/2005 1:54 pm
Then he will go read Silky's blog and be infinitely intruiged by her and drawn to learn more about her... and then post some replies to her musings as well...|
Brilliant posts back atcha...
11/15/2005 4:24 pm
Silky reads your replies on her bloggs ..|
Is very curious about this male..
Come visit silky soon again
Write me some more..
11/15/2005 6:07 pm