Is it worse?  

rm_sharksnsails 46M
697 posts
7/5/2005 12:19 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Is it worse?

I am very down on bullies, regardless of what form they come in. People who hurt, or don't care (don't feel) and so take it out on the weak, because they're too scared to fight any real battles. (Yes some of us fearful retreat into alcohol, or other substances, but some retreat into sadism). The truth is that part of being a "good" person is dealing constructively with pain, and injustice.
As for injustice, when a man a woman there should be very severe consequences, I agree, I have never been turned on by power games that take that form, and am intimidated by the precarious legal position they put me. The reason why I "Just won't "take" you, is because that could land me in deep trouble, I would have to trust a woman far more than just letting her handcuff me for that anymore, my soon to be ex has taught me how dangerous a woman can be when she is willing to lie and exaggerate a situation to the law).
So what about women who falsely claim abuse, , etc? When a woman makes a false claim against a man then he inures the full wrath and shame of society, and is left alone to defend himself against the whole lot. What if he proves it was a lie, why is everyone so quick to let the woman "off the hook" (They even believe "well he must have done Something wrong, even if it wasn't that...) why doesn't she incur the same wrath? People sometimes say that woman who dress this way or that "deserved" to get . Did I "deserve" to get slandered because I tried to keep my family together, then realizing she wouldn't ever love me, left? Why? Because I picked the wrong one? Well she can accuse all she wants, and this society and my family can all push me away as much as they want, and all of you can think what you want. Big guy in the sky knows. Maybe he will have mercy on my soul even though the mother of my children won't.
hope this finds you well

PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
7/6/2005 9:29 pm

*gives you a warm hug*

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
7/7/2005 8:46 am

SMILES to you today....

Hope things start looking up for you...


rm_sharksnsails 46M
738 posts
7/12/2005 2:21 pm

Thanks yall, im ok, if not a bit confused, I think if my ex were as abused as she claims (abused by her father , by me, etc...) then she would be more sensitive, not less. Im starting to believe that bullies do what they do BECAUSE they get away with it. still working on this theory. Thanks for the warm feelings!

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