Don't hate yourself  

rm_sharksnsails 46M
697 posts
4/30/2005 1:21 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Don't hate yourself

Don't hate your body,
I have tried that, it doesn't seem to change it.
Don't hate your dreams,
Even when they refuse to come true.
I don't think its good to hate God,
(your looking in the wrong place)
Please don't hate yourself for believing in someone. You can't fault your hopes (see about dreams, above)
Don't hate not having what you wish you did. Odds are, having it wouldn't make you as happy as you think.
Don't hate growing older. What? Are you going to hate the air you breath too?
Don't hate your past, --- FORGIVE YOURSELF (acknowledge and move on)
Don't give up, don't quit trying, apathy is waiting to devour you.
Don't hate love, cry instead.

What do hate about yourself? How are you working on it?

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
4/30/2005 7:12 am

So many people do hate their bodies; and, shouldn't. It is what it is and sometimes trying to change it would only change the superficial part of it...and what really matters is what is inside. Good for you. Look forward to seeing your future postings.

rm_sharksnsails 46M
738 posts
5/1/2005 7:03 pm

Thank you for taking the time to post, since your my first comment, in a way a guess you could say you busted my "blog cherry" hehe. Please do keep coming round. I'll see next time...

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
5/2/2005 9:39 am

You're welcome, sharks....

That is a great question that you added at the end there. Insofar as hating myself, I don't. There are plenty of things that I wish I could change -- for example, I was in a car accident about a year ago where I still have a large contusion on my right calf and it has, subsequently, caused swelling in my legs (one much more than the other). If I had it to do all over again, I wouldn't have had been in the way for that white suburban who ate the front end of my white "flash" blazer. I can't take it all back and wish I could. Now, I have a bigger "red barron" red blazer -- hopefully, all vehicles can see me now!!!

ANYHOWS... Good luck on the rest of your blog writings; it is pretty addictive!! lol....

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
5/9/2005 2:02 pm

Ya got a BIGGER one, eh [blog txrose4uNTX] ? I have heard that that is what Texans do when they need a solution!

[blog sharksnsails] ,
When I had found myself beaten down and worn out from a series of alchohol and drug related problems with both family members and exes alike, I took myself over to AL-ANON which was pure and simple my SALVATION.

I have come back out of my self-imposed exile and am getting right with the world once more.

I began looking after ME, and changed the way I dealt with the problems that OTHERS bring upon THEMSELVES. (it must be the codependent "mommy" in me that caused this)

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
5/9/2005 2:11 pm

Now if I can just get myself laid I really will feel normal again...

rm_sharksnsails 46M
738 posts
5/10/2005 11:26 pm

texas rose (a yellow rose I presume) I guess I did word the question wrong, I'm thinking about starting over with a whole new format, also I am concerned about coming on freind finder, as the only access I have to the internet is through company servers ( a reality of working offshore) its funny that some may view this site as low grade porn, when I have found it soo helpful for so many other reasons.
KCC, I too have had my fight with drugs and alcohal, and believe me they did way more than their fair share of damages, but ANON never appealed to me (it's a problem that dates back to my ex) Still having been too far down those roads I am glad that you also have come back from the edge as I enjoy reading your mind bending blogs.
Thanks y'all two for dropping by, I'll see you around.

missy97330 47F

5/11/2005 11:46 pm

What do I hate about me? That a smart, pretty girl like me threw her life away at a young age and married someone who dragged her down, down, down. Mentally, emotionally, spiritually, financially, socially...down.

Now I am 36, have no job experience, no college degree, no equity, no savings, no established circle of friends...I have nothing but my kids.

But what can I do but move forward?

Sinderlicious 51F
310 posts
5/20/2005 1:37 am

I don't hate anything about myself.......anymore. I'm perfect at being me and all the things I've lived through made me who I am..and I LIKE me! Sure there are things I work on changing and I'm constantly growing as a person...but hating anything about who I am would be contrary to how I live..

though I DO wish I had longer legs and bigger boobs.

Sin like you mean it!

PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
7/2/2005 3:50 am

What I hate is not so much about myself, but about the way the world sees me. Skinny="yeah, baby!", ergo fat="yuck!" *sigh*

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11240 posts
7/31/2005 10:33 pm

That's so much ez'er said than done ...

~ sighz ~

rm_sharksnsails 46M
738 posts
8/17/2005 6:11 pm

Too True Goddes otD, too true

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