Whatever happened to passion?  

rm_shamus888 53M
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11/17/2005 2:43 pm

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Whatever happened to passion?


Whatever happened to passion? No, not just sex. What happened to that real firey passion that used to be so all encompassing? I remember making love when the people put their heart and soul into it. Now it seems that everyone I meet whilst wanting the sex is just so used to having casual sexual encounters that there is just no real passion in it anymore.
Yes, I know that I'm feeling slightly jaundiced about the whole thing. This blogs coming on the back of dumping yet another girlfriend on the basis of a relationship that's only problem was a deterioration into mediocracy.
At times I've felt that I must be to blame for it as all of the relationships that I've had over the last few years have gone the same way. However, I've got a friend whose wise enough to occassionally sleep with me without cluttering things up with a relationship and she's been thinking very much along the same lines, basically that everyone seems to be getting so used to the sex that new encounters are just losing their excitement.
I actually find myself missing the flowers and chocolates and dating bit of the whole thing in this mad rush for immediate gratification. Then again, when one follows the traditional dating route relationships just seems to move out of the bedroom area and turn into being about choosing carpets and curtains... Then you get divorced and start all over again.... Bah Humbug. Time for bed (all on me tod) methinks. Nighty night.

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