Being a Woman  

rm_sexygurlsex2 47F
60 posts
10/21/2005 11:08 am

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Being a Woman

We're complex, beautiful, emotional, strong, soft, curvy, passionate, kind, giving to a fault, and sometimes a bit selfish. Exploring every facet of being a woman is a bit challenging even for a woman so I can't imagine how men must feel when they try to figure us out. (wink)

This site has definitely been an eye opening experience, I've never seen so many physically "naked" people but that's the easy part of all this, being emotionally naked is the real test. What I mean is letting go as much as possible all your preconceived ideas of what this is about. Letting other people see who you really are -- the inside. And without a doubt this is the most difficult for me because I don't like letting down my guard. I don't like letting people in because I don't like being disappointed or hurt but I want the emotional closeness of someone without the pretenses. But is this even a possiblity?

Reality is can you trust your emotions or heart with someone else? Am I willing to show my weaknesses or let my guard down? I'm hopeful I will find someone I can feel comfortable enough with for this to happen because I'm tired of being strong all the time. But I know its not about the ability to share these sides of myself, its about feeling safe and trusting the other person, intimacy. (sigh)

rm_ziprthik 54M
1 post
10/21/2005 1:33 pm

Happy that I ran accross your posts. I too am fairly new to Co Springs area, Monument actually, and I'm looking forward to the nice powdery snowfall to start off the skiing season.
You're an intelligent and very sexy woman. I only wish that I was two years younger, or maybe you'd bend your rules a little. Best wishes.

rm_TwiztedCharm 56M
456 posts
10/22/2005 8:42 am

I don't know if you can but I do know that if you do it will open the door to happiness. When you finally find the one man those walls you build to protect only get in the way of both your hearts.

My last lover does this exact thing and all I ever wanted was for her to open her heart. Our relationship was destroyed partly because of this and both of our reactions to building or running into walls. I honestly loved this woman with my soul and would have done anything for her. OH well, life goes on.

You are a very beautiful and intelligent woman so trust in yourself and if you need the walls maybe you could put in a door and if some great guy finds it you will have to decide to open it. Keep in mind men have allot of these same issues where love is concerned.

rm_alltight2me 50M
3 posts
11/4/2005 6:07 pm

Intimacy is the goal. I don't mean just sexual intimacy. I mean the kind of relationship that only comes from being honest. The kind of honesty that is scary. Will he be able to live with my morning breath? Will he care if I snore? What about money, family and faith? And yes, what about sex and sexuality? Will we be compatible after the chemistry is cooling off?
I have found that the only way to get what I truly want (to be loved and respected for who I am) is to let down the guard and let that special someone see me for who I am. I keep this little wooden plaque in my bathroom where I can read it every day...
"A friend is someone that knows all about you... and loves you just the same."

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