Just a thought  

rm_sexyclassyDi 59F
14 posts
4/26/2005 9:22 pm

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Just a thought

Sitting here thinking and was wondering about something so here is where I will ask this question.

Since you men all have a preference

Do you prefer sexually openminded women who have lots of experience and who know what they want and will pretty much try anything that is suggested ?((((come on we all have fantasy's))))

or do you men prefer the quiet shy the kind that would say OMG!! I am a virgin and/or that's gross or I have way too much respect for myself to even try that.......( like if you suggested something that may be taboo to her)?

Because come on guys if we come across as Nympho's you say it turns you on but does it really or does it make you think she has been around one too many times......and she just is not someone I would prefer to be with

And how many of you can handle a sexually, open,selective nympho.....



LordsBitedStood 64M
61 posts
4/26/2005 10:00 pm

Well Di, to answer for myself, in my younger days I wanted to be the experienced one and her the shy one. Now that I am older and wish not to play games all the time I seek a lady who most might consider over the top. I do this because then I know what to expect and what she expects, no surprises no fumbling in the dark, and probably some real mind blowing sex I hope. Yes we all have fantasys, the problem most guys have is how to discuss those with their women and find out hers. If more did then our society would probably be a little more relaxed about sex than we are. Since my divorce I have gone back to writing erotic stories again and awakening my mind to the foreplay that makes these ladies so exceptional. If you cannot get into the right mindset and express the seduction and the chase leading to the act then would it really matter whether she was a goody two shoes or the wicked whore in the bedroom that we wish for? What really turns me on is a woman who can play the role either way. The shy schoolgirl type one night and the dominant take me now and do me alnight woman the next. Variety is the spice of life why not make it the same when it comes to sex? By the way, that is the best description of the B word I have ever seen and I bet you live up to it fantastically.

Yesterday Is History, Tomorrow a Mystery, and Today a Gift. That's why we call it The Present.


LordsBitedStood 64M
61 posts
4/26/2005 10:04 pm

Well Di, to answer for myself, in my younger days I wanted to be the experienced one and her the shy one. Now that I am older and wish not to play games all the time I seek a lady who most might consider over the top. I do this because then I know what to expect and what she expects, no surprises no fumbling in the dark, and probably some real mind blowing sex I hope.

Yes we all have fantasys, the problem most guys have is how to discuss those with their women and find out hers. If more did then our society would probably be a little more relaxed about sex than we are.

Since my divorce I have gone back to writing erotic stories again and awakening my mind to the foreplay that makes these ladies so exceptional. If you cannot get into the right mindset and express the seduction and the chase leading to the act then would it really matter whether she was a goody two shoes or the wicked whore in the bedroom that we wish for?

What really turns me on is a woman who can play the role either way. The shy schoolgirl type one night and the dominant take me now and do me alnight woman the next. Variety is the spice of life why not make it the same when it comes to sex?

By the way, that is the best description of the B word I have ever seen and I bet you live up to it fantastically.

Yesterday Is History, Tomorrow a Mystery, and Today a Gift. That's why we call it The Present.


Apolybear 54M

4/27/2005 2:04 am

Are you kidding Di? Sexually open, selective nymphos are goddesses that should be worshiped and revered...lol. I know some men like submissive women, but I'm definately NOT one of them.


unbelievableman1 61M
1373 posts
5/3/2005 3:30 am

Hello Di,in my oppinion it depends what one is looking for.
To take myself as an example,I don't look for realationships in sense of living together/beeing couples/marrying or any stuff like that.
So I do enjoy both types of women,-also the mix-types who are a bit of both kinds-it depends of situations and moods.
It's not that difficult to handle with someone who knows what she/he wants/needs as long as its declared open and honest (seriuos),even if it means, that i'm not in every case "the one" who satisfies her!!
It is just a question of respect and selfrespect.That means that both have to take seriuos the desires of the other...and also to deal seriuos with his own fantasies as well as with his borders,and accept that a yes is a yes and a no is a no!!(which can change by situation and is not automatically dogmatic!!!)
Sorry , i have some problems to explain exactly, how i think about this matter-I'm not very used in writing english in the past years- but I guess you can understand the main-line of my thoughts.

greets


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