Best Friends  

rm_sexyclassyDi 59F
14 posts
5/7/2005 7:12 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Best Friends

Hmmm, sitting here getting ready to go out with my Best Friends BoyFriend and not feeling guilty about it,as we are close friends he and I. I actually met him and knew him before her and I became Friends I introduced them to each other at an AdultFriendFinder party. Seems she is a lil jealous and worried about us being together, the quicker is she is not sure whether she wants to date him or not. But, as I have explained to her over and over again and so has he it is okay to have friends of the opposite sex. So I am wondering now am I a bad person for doing this? He is so not my type he is just a friend and its nice to have a friend I do not feel sexually atracted to.

so I wonder

When did Women and/or Men feel once you start dating someone that you have to let go of all your friends of the opposite sex?

dnoir 46M

5/7/2005 9:39 pm

I wish I knew the answer to that one! Be glad you're not married! Apparently, you're not even supposed to talk to the opposite sex, or else you don't get any for a month! Of course in my situation, I don't get any unless all the planets are lined up just right, which apparently doesn't happen except every 3-4 weeks. I work out six days a week and I can appreciate anybody's physique, especially a woman's. When I see a woman that looks great, I know she has put in the time and effor in the gym, and I admire that. However I can't tell you the number of times I've gone without becaue of it! The sad part is when you try to explain, you just end up digging yourself a hole. You hold on to all of your friends and don't let anyone guilt you or otherwise tell you who you should and should not be friends with! Remember, we are all grown ups (supposedly) and we make our own choices!


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