rm_savsum4mepls 44F
22 posts
8/12/2005 7:04 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


so here i am, 32 years old-cancer survior-mommy of 3-wife-daughter-neice-aunt-friend--how is it that after all this time--13yrs--I know find myself saying "what the f**k happened to my life? When I got married, I was in love and happy, things sucked but we had each other, then came the kids and family losses, money--things changed--WHY? I am a good wife, I am a great cook, a good mommy and I give a great blowjob and love to have sex this way and that way, so why is my husband not enjoying this???? I am put to the decision of cheat or be sex deprived in my sexual prime--this is not gonna happen--I have tried it all--and here I am looking for a booty call--you know after I lived through my ongoing cancer scare, I made the decision to change my life and if he gets left behind, then so be it--I am changing so much, my body is coming back and I am getting my smile to shine alittle easier--anyone else jumping ship with me?come on in the waters fine........

rm_mdthc2 57M
1 post
8/12/2005 8:36 am

i know what you mean... i'm 45 and looking around saying the same thing! I'm not interested in cheating as much as moving on so i can find someone with whom i can REALLY conect with. Leaving the past, comfort zone, upsetting my future -- it's all a lot to contenplate and has so many implications for me and my family. But i'm struggling daily with the fact that i'm not responsible for everyone -- as much as I am responsible for myself and my own happiness. sounds easy to to come to terms with but it's not, at least for me. but i want more fun, more sex and i'm not willing to give up on my future. If any of this sounds familiar to you, your not alone. there are a lot of us out here and i think we are all pulling for each other. Have the courage and keep working to make you smile shine more and more!!!

redmustang91 57M  
8599 posts
8/12/2005 8:38 am

Life changes everything. Sometimes you just crave variety. You can divorce, try swinging, have an affair or explore women! Or all of the above. Good luck. Peace and contentment come from within, not without.

HardlyYours4Now 52M

8/12/2005 8:55 am

savsum -

When I do look at 'Who's Online Is It Anyway' around Atlanta, I've seen you there, but never bothered to look further because I've had very little positive contact with under-40s...but you rock!

Jumping ship? Wait,I just want to get my rubber ducky...oh, screw it...*splash*

MossyChumsLyons 52M
1 post
8/12/2005 8:57 am

“I am a good wife, I am a great cook, a good mommy and I give a great blowjob and love to have sex this way and that way, so why is my husband not enjoying this???? I am put to the decision of cheat or be sex deprived in my sexual prime”

Substitute wife/husband, mommy/daddy, blowjob/licker and you and I are on the same page. I agree that it is frustrating as hell. I have talked to my wife about it many times and it doesn’t seem to sink in. That’s what sent me here and why you are here. I feel your pain……

Doc4857 60M
17 posts
8/12/2005 9:20 am

Sounds as though your hubby has developed a complex with himself over the years; maybe debating his acomplishments or unsettled with himself. The problem is not you or what you have or have not done, but rather him deciding to break out of this comfort zone he has put himself into and rediscovering what he has cohosen to put away for what ever reason. Personally if I were him, I would be very greatful to have a woman willing to fight to live and still fighting to live and meet her in the middle instead of staying on the opposite side. I admire you.

japaneselee 48M
407 posts
8/12/2005 12:29 pm

wow u have sexy body. pls contact me!

thecandyman31 42M
1 post
9/11/2005 6:11 pm

i am looking for the same i love my wife very much but she is lacking alot in the sexual dept. so if your intrested in an affair i am your man

tinpen5 63M

1/16/2006 1:47 pm

I feel your pain, but my wife of 27 years decided she no longer liked sex, marriage, or me. So I have moved on.

Your happiness will come from within you after you realize that you are not the problem. You have an admirer for your courage.

I will be moving permenantly to your area in early Feb. Hopefully we could meet and discuss this further. No strings, no promises, we'll just see what develops if you want.

No matter what, it is important for you to remember that when a spouse changes and refuses to deal with it - it is not your fault. Let your smile return. It's gonna be okay.

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