Biology / Evolution VS Mental Train Wreck  

DictaLaxlyRamus 67M
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6/8/2006 1:12 pm

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Biology / Evolution VS Mental Train Wreck

More observations here about various aspects of the AdultFriendFinder world today. Now I'm going to take the edge off right off the bat by clearly agreeing that the vast majority of men are horn-dogs. We even have an Ex-President to point to as proof! There is a fundamental difference between men and women in the area of sex. Men are creatures of opportunity while women are hardwired more at the "best possible mate" level.

That is not to say that men cannot restrain themselves nor does it imply that women can't be just as opportunistic as men. It does, however, say that at the most elementary levels our sexual goals are at odds with each other. The schools teach the "theory" of evolution and if that is to be the holy grail then we must look at the rest of the animal kingdom for wisdom and insight into why we are all here on AdultFriendFinder.

As stated in the opening remarks, men are creatures of opportunity. The urge to procreate is hardwired into our genes which means our jeans need to hit the deck on a very frequent basis to comply with that internal wiring. As many a frustrated woman knows..... with most men it's ALL about getting that nut. Rather than "I came, I saw, I conquered" with men its more like "I came, I'm done."

I liken the difference between men and women as that between fire crackers and bond fires. With men... light the fuse and a short time later BANG and it's all over. With women..... it's gather the kindling, get a little spark in there.... nurture it... care for it.... encourage it. That begins to smolder and eventually there is a tiny flame that can be encouraged to eventually become a nice glowing fire that lasts for quite some time. Men heat up quickly and cool off just as fast. Women are generally slow to heat up and equally slow in cooling off.

More to the point and in the most basic of terms.... men are hardwired to fuck anything and everything they can in order to give the species, as a whole, the greatest possibility of survival. Women are hardwired to be selective so that their individual offspring has the best chance of survival. Obviously these two mating strategies are diametrically opposed. But, just as in the animal kingdom, it is the female who does the mate selecting 99.8% of the time. Hundreds of males offer their "services" but very, very few are chosen. It's no different in nature.

What strikes me as odd is that this basic fact seems to be a complete shock and surprise to a lot of women when they come on an adult site. They are generally outnumbered by males because, after all, we ARE horn-dogs. They say they are looking for some "fun" or a "Friend with benefits" or sometimes even just a "fuck buddy" for some fun times. Then they are overwhelmed when their e-mail box explodes under the sheer volume of replies. Some actually go off in some sort of "holier than thou" rant with shrill attacks aimed at the majority of males. It's like.... "I'm looking for sex with a man and that's okay.... but you're a man and want sex with me and that's shocking and I'm offended!" Ladies.... you just have to either deal with it or delete your profile.

In the next installment I'll give my observations about the rise (pardon the pun) of the Bi-sexual male.

Till then.... enjoy!

azulgatoazul 40M  
6 posts
12/14/2006 12:59 am

I really do look forward to your blogs, you are a genius!

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