Slut wife  

rm_sakrilej 41M
200 posts
8/2/2005 9:31 am

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Slut wife

No, she's not MY wife (in fact they're not legally married) and I don't really even consider her a slut. There's this woman I know who wants everything I'll give her of myself, problem being, she's in a family environment. She's got a man and kids and my friends have told me "just fuck her and send her on her way". I know most males would, I however, have a conscience. It's not that I'm scared of a jealous man finding out, or that she's not fuckable. I just know how I'd feel if I was with someone, and she was fucking around behind my back, I can't do that to the guy. Even if I did and he never found out, I would know and I just get the guilts. It's not a short term thing either, a couple of years ago she was telling me she wanted an affair, even going so far as saying she loved me and she's happy knowing she's told me and she can wait forever and be happy with any little bit of time she gets with me. Hasn't stopped her wanting my dick though and I just don't want the discomfort, knowing she'd do me in a flash. Is that prudish?

P.S.I only called the post 'Slut Wife' to catch attention.


bmoviejunkie2 50M
51 posts
8/2/2005 10:46 am

Not at all. I don't mess around with married women at all under any circumstance, and I would include "significant others" in that category. I have a conscious as well, and that can really suck in the search for personal gratification.

Check out my blog, you might enjoy it as I struggle with a lot of the same things.


miss_cj_000 32F

8/2/2005 10:54 am

No, that's having morals, something a lot of people seem to lack.


PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
8/2/2005 11:32 am

Not prudish at all. Quite sensible, really.

I think she should either dump him or see a couples counselor, because if you feel a need to cheat on your partner, well baby, you have BIG relationship problems. Same applies if it were a man.

Kudos to you for being a real man and turning her down.

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma


FriendlyTickler 45M

8/2/2005 11:44 am

Nope, go with your gut. There is something to be said for intuition....trust yourself and your feelings.


ArgosPlumyKooky 45F
3902 posts
8/2/2005 11:54 am

well i am glad there are some people out here with morals. i have been on the receving end of cheating and it's hurtful. it brings bad karma too, and that is why i won't play with married people.don't want to. i won't say i have not been with involved people, but marriage is a committment on a whole different level and should be considered sacred. swinging is awesome, but otherwise married people should get a divorce if they are looking to mate with others outside of the marriage.


Philosophy_N_Sex 49M/47F

8/2/2005 11:57 am

Well if she will cheat on one she will cheat on another, you included.


bmoviejunkie2 50M
51 posts
8/2/2005 9:08 pm

I agree on the fact that we have a bit in common. Doesn't morality suck?


mcsusieg 49F
56 posts
8/2/2005 9:16 pm

Hedonistic pleasure is just that. And why the word slut ‒ oh my ‒ our society uses that word to be demeaning, specifically for woman my dear ‒ honor your time in every place. No need to worry so much. If it doesn’t feel good ‒ don’t do it…and no need to contemplate why.

My penniless thoughts!


CaboWaboVHnut 56M
637 posts
8/3/2005 9:58 am

Hey man ! Sounds like you've got your head on straight !!! Keeping it that way can be a challenge, but I think you've made the right choice !!! I work with a guy who cheats on his wife constantly, and it doesn't bother him at all !!! If I cheated on my wife, I could not live with myself !!! Trust your own judgement, you've made the best choice !!! Peace !!! Cabo !!! P.S. VanHalen Rocks !!! With DAVE, SAMMY, or GARY !!! [ Yeah, I saw the tour with Gary ! He did a good job, I mean, C'MON ! He was in a no win situation, but he survived !!! ] One of the best parts of their shows anymore, is when Mikey sings: Somebody Get Me a Doctor !!! Kicks Ass !!! Later !!!


sweetthang2877 40F
534 posts
8/12/2005 1:27 pm

sakrilej, I have a similar problem with a guy I work with at the nightclub. He is married, and his wife is in Iraq for the next 2 years. I have to keep reminding him of his marriage and it's beginning to make me uncomfortable. Almost to the point where I want to end the friendship. I have the same resolve when it comes to married men hitting on me. They just don't take no for an answer. *sigh* Don't give up, I haven't. Fidelity is out there SOMEWHERE! I just don't know where Anyhoo Bravo to you for being a man...wonder how much it would cost for a plane ticket to Melbourne.....

ST


sweetthang2877 40F
534 posts
8/13/2005 4:16 pm

sakrilej, I DO apologize!! I hadn't realised you lived in NZ until I read your profile...AFTER posting the comment of course! I was just too embarrassed to post another correcting myself Please don't hate me because I'm BLonde ;

ST


sweetthang2877 40F
534 posts
8/14/2005 11:19 am

Now you've opened another can of worms!!
Two blondes were walking along when they happened upon a set of tracks. The first blonde says "Those look like deer tracks!"
To which the second blonde replies "No I think they're raccoon tracks!"
They were still arguing when the train hit them!

Hope you enjoyed it!
ST (Tracy)


sweetthang2877 40F
534 posts
8/16/2005 9:33 pm

Somehow somewhere we've gone off track....but...

Do you know why blonde girls have bruised belly buttons??
Because blonde guys are dumb too!

How are a blonde and a turtle alike??
Once you get them on their backs they're fucked

Enjoy!

LMAO
ST


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