Love or Control  

rm_s4mesmile 56M
4 posts
5/24/2005 3:10 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Love or Control


Most men think that to love their partner is to control them. To always check up on them, what they are doing, where they are going and who they are with. I feel just the opposite, that to love is to have freedom. Have the freedom to pursue one's goals and objectives in life and to just have fun, but to be there for your partner. Providing love and support in the good as well as the bad times becasue whe all have them. Really the basic human need is to be unconditionally loved and repsected by our partner, and that really means standing by and covering our partners back when they need it the most. Also i believe in maintaining those friendships that you had before you got into the relationship. Friends are such an important source of support for us when maybe our partner can't be for some reason, and it really shouldn't matter if they are male or female friends, as friends are friends. But this really takes two people who are secure in who they are and can accept those things in life. And i believe that by having that freedom and security it leads to a deeper, richer and more fullfilling emotional and physical intimacy. I mean can you imagine how much you would love and repsect your partner if they were this way? You really wouldn't be able to get enough of them. Well good luck.

playfulwithyou33 56F
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6/11/2005 8:50 am

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