Finding out after the marriage is over  

ScoldCombsViand 39M
5 posts
6/24/2006 8:06 pm

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7/15/2006 9:11 am

Finding out after the marriage is over

Even though my marraige is over, I found out something today. I don't understand why, but it still hurts. I know that I need to start looking again, but I just don't know how

justareelfind 53M
1 post
6/24/2006 9:54 pm

278 This is my first time doing this. I'm recently separated up until march this year everything was alright not perfect but we were or at least I was she was just waiting for a better deal opportunity knocked she was gone now its all my fault I"m the bad guy. she doesn't have any feelings about it thats the hardest part she doesn't even care if any thing she does hurts me that way she can get me back fore the things that I have done to her. all of a sudden it will start to turn its not sudden at all. its painfully slooooow. it will just keep going I hope. I'm going Thur it . from justareelfind

moonlightphoenix 45F
6508 posts
6/24/2006 9:58 pm

It's a process. You can't rush it no matter what you "should" or "shouldn't" do. Be kind to yourself.

piercedx1965 45F

7/11/2006 7:58 am

Build a strong support group of friends and family. Here are some quotes that have helped me to cope after finding out.--"Do not be mislead: bad company corrupts good character. Come back to your senses."---"We cannot do anything against the truth but only for the truth."---"Let no one deceive you with empty words. Therefore, do not be partners with them."--"He will bring to light what is hidden in darkness and will expose the motives of men's hearts." and lastly....."The eye is the lamp of the body. If your eyes are good, your whole body will be full of light."
Hope it helps you.

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