Friends with benefits (rant)  

rm_rulookin4bbw 47F
5 posts
8/29/2006 11:09 am

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Friends with benefits (rant)

Okay so here's the thing. I'm really sick of guys who say they want FWB when all the want is the benefits aka a booty call.

I'm pretty up front and honest about what I want. I don't want just a bed buddy, I wanna hang out and have fun. I'm not looking for emotional commitment.. Perish the thought. But I don't want to be someones dirty little secret only to be thought of when they're horny or in the mood.
Friendship means more than that.

In my life I've had 2 real FWB. It was great. We'd hang out, go to dinner, go dancing, watch movies, mess with peoples minds, heck I'd even give them pointers on girls. We'd have long conversations about nothing in particular. And when we didn't have people we were dating, we'd have some awesome sex. I loved it. And I want to find that again.

Right now I am just tired of the whole thing. I've had guys tell me that they were looking for the same thing but truly all they wanted was a booty call. Once they finally got me in bed the "friendship" aspect was gone. No more hangin out, no more conversations other than "Hey can you come over tonight." It pisses me off.

I'm not asking for commitment or a ring or any of that. So why the hell are guys being so freakin dense?

2daycowboywanted 45F

8/29/2006 11:46 am

Had that problem as well. I have decided that most guys on here are scared shitless of a committment. Hey - who the hell said anything about committment?? I am looking for sex and friendship not a committment!!

Until later

U_S_mel 62M  
4 posts
9/5/2006 11:46 pm

it is unfortunate that there are people ( and not just guys ) out there like that. There is one thing you must remember also you have control of your body and you have the right to say no. It is always best to find the friend's first and make sure they want to be friends before they get the benefits. I have many friends I have found in here and the benefit is we are friends. Good luck in your search and I hope you find many friends.

mrsavage 54M  
41 posts
10/13/2006 11:35 pm

Yes I must agree, men are pigs!! Once we've had our evil way, we no longer need the friend bit....

rm_rulookin4bbw 47F
3 posts
10/15/2006 11:04 pm

i didn't say all men are that way.. just the few i've met here. lol

NightStick39 51M/53F

10/21/2006 7:58 pm

You seem to find the same in guys, as I have in females... Just keep on looking, and good luck, and stay safe!

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