What the hell... (This is also my first blog ever)  

rm_rsrusa 32M
8 posts
11/27/2005 3:42 pm

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What the hell... (This is also my first blog ever)


I'd like to know what the fuck is wrong with me??? I've been on this site for like three weeks and have only had bi-sexual and gay men email me. Is there something wrong with my profile?? I must look really fucked up or something. Nobody will fucking write back, just to even be friends. Cans some of you tell me what I'm doing wrong? I don't think I'm gonna re-up my subscription on here. Hopefully some of you guys are getting lucky. Well, if any ladies care to tell me what's up that would be great. Take it easy. Ramsey

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/50F
9753 posts
11/27/2005 5:21 pm

RS......

Saying this gently darling, you may want to tweak your profile. You come off a little strong. No offense but you did ask

Tell the girls a little more about you and make them want to reply and ask questions......Have you had any experiences in this lifestyle? You say it looks like fun, explain how so....what is it that is so intriguing.

Hope this helps ya~

Good Luck,

Purry & Sail

Purry


rm_PurryKitty2 48M/50F
9753 posts
11/27/2005 5:23 pm

oh btw.....

It is also because you are a single guy. This you cant help but a lot of us women are leary to reply and get scared easily by some comments.

Be gentle but direct...have fun!

Purry


rm_rsrusa 32M
2 posts
11/27/2005 8:16 pm

Ok, how do I come off strong. A lot of people tell me that. I guess I kinda just say what I mean. I'm not looking to be a dick or anything. What comments did I say that might make a woman leary? Why would women be leary of a single guy, isn't this ideal for here? If you want a relationship, great we'll see, if not, that's ok too. I'm gonna paste this on your blog too, just in case you don't come back here. I obviously need some help here I guess.


rm_PurryKitty2 48M/50F
9753 posts
11/28/2005 3:15 am

RS......

Please dont post any dick pics! Most women hate those. There are some who like them and there is nothing wrong with that, but let them ask you for it.

The picture you have up now is a nice picture.

As for the strong comments they are as follows: (Now Keep in mind, this is how I felt when I read it and I dont speak for all women, just giving you a woman's perspective)

"Email me back if you'd like to kick it".......- First, I dont know if I would like to "kick" it, because I have chated with you.......

"If you just want to hang out and mess around and all that good stuff, that's cool you don't have to be exactly what I'm looking for".......- I took this as you would fuck anything and if I was the girl wanting to be with you, I would be hoping you are meeting me because I was what you expected! Does that make sense?

Anyways...that is my 2 cents.....Again, I am not trying to be a bitch, just thought I would help since you asked. Good Luck to you sweetie!

Purry

Purry


reallysweetname 34F

11/28/2005 9:03 pm

rsrusa, I wouldn't take Purry's comments too much to heart. It's her opinion but she's welcome to have it. Personally I really liked your profile. Its nice to see someone who actually writes a decent amount about himself and what he's looking for. As for why you're not getting any responses, I get tons of email everyday, it takes awhile to sort through it. I won't respond to just anyone. So here's sending that wink right back to you.

reallysweetname


cplfeelsnawty 51M/37F
3 posts
11/30/2005 11:46 pm

Dude your profile would be a good one for a singles dating site for people trying to find someone to date and hopefully spend the rest of their life with. Swapfinder is for those of us looking for others who want ot get together and have hot awsome sex with each other threesomes, foursomes, group, swapping partners and much more

the wild side of sex.

Having said all that if your looking for these kinda things thats what you need to put in your profile what turns you on what you want to try having a dog and an xbox is cool but it wont get you laid your a good looking guy . so if you want some action trim out some of the hunting camping and hiking shit and tell us what makes you horny or that you want to figure out what you think would get off dont be shy let it out there are probably a thousand women on here who would love to help you figure out what rocks your world

hope this helps man and good luck


midnitebedrmeyez 36F
1 post
12/2/2005 2:29 pm

Ur cute, too bad ur not in ny


rm_rsrusa 32M
2 posts
12/3/2005 3:55 pm

Thanks. I'm gonna try to spruce up my profile again and see it that does anything. I send a couple of emails a day and get nothing. Tough crowd I guess. Well, I'm gonna give it another week, if still nothing I just won't re-up my subscription.


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