Sexual Labels  

rm_rsp54 58F
892 posts
6/7/2006 7:42 am

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6/18/2006 7:05 am

Sexual Labels

The other day I was talking to an old friend I hadn't seen in many, many moons. He is divorced and soon to remarry. He has confided in me. He has told me things that no other of his friends know about his sexuality.

Although the female form is his main preference, a little cocksucking and mutual masturbation with likeminded men REALLY EXCITES him. Is he Bi??? Well, if you were inclined to slap on sexual lables, I suppose you would say yes.

He would never admit to being bi, basically for social reasons. He has a high powered job and is socially prominent. There is just too much homophobia out there for such a revelation.

Sexuality is just much more complicated than the christian right would like us to believe. There is an entire continuous spectrum of sexual tastes and preferences. For the most part, society dictates that most are taboo.

People do not choose to be drawn to members of the same sex. It is either there or not. Repressing these urges usually causes great unhappiness. But in many cases, expressing them can be just as bad. It's a cruel, nasty, intolerant world. Much of this cruelty is fueld by the so called christians. Praise the lord and bash the gay!!! Go figure.

I asked my friend if he has told his future wife about his desires. I'm sure you can guess his answer. Of course not!!! I told him,"Good Luck." Because with a situation as such, he'll need it.

Am I abnormal because I find the fact that many men that I am drawn to, like cocks as much as I do, to be very sexy? Is it too much to ask that a man feel likewise about me getting excited by a beautiful woman? No clear cut answer. Just food for thought.

kiwikid477 61M
99 posts
6/7/2006 9:53 am

Rose you know my thoughts on this, and as we have discussed I still think your answer Not "Bi", merely "Sexual" says it all, some of us are attracted to the same sex if only out of curiosity but once experienced one could well have a change of heart or "God Forbid" want more of the same. In my case I am still looking forward to some guy I am attracted to slipping me a nice hard prick. I have still not experienced it but I hope to. It may well be a one time thing but you and I know with my feelings of sexuality it would likely encourage me to want more and put me in a situation where I would have to confess to the lady of my life that I need more than just straight sex.

12pups 54M

6/8/2006 2:51 pm

Agreed. Serious psychology doesn't dwell on an oversimplistic labeling system of this or that. We are sexual. Period. We all respond sexually in a variety of ways, sometimes seemingly contradictory. I am fascinated by male anatomy and female alike. I like the uniqueness of every single human being: small, short, fat, skinny, amply endowed or not, and everything in between, whether female or male. I love it all. I want to see it all. I want to experience so much of it.

But romantically, I'm primarily heterosexual... er, have demonstrated that tendency pretty much only so far. I want to touch and suck a man, and vice versa. But I probably wouldn't want to marry a man. Not romantically inclined to at this point, although once, I thought maybe.

We are too complicated, too many constructs to account for, for so simple a labeling system as "gay" or "straight." That is arbitrary, and rarely all that useful.

The reason I was attracted to your blog originally is because, as kiwikid477 says, you "get it," your "Not Bi, merely sexual," matches what I've believed for a very long time.

As a side note, hey Kiwikid -- where ya live?

Good post, you two!!!


rm_HornyRN47 69M
2 posts
6/10/2006 9:05 am

I understand completely. I enjoy looking at hard cocks, especially if they are being sucked or are probing a hot pussy! I also enjoy the feel of a hard cock...I have had the fun of stroking a cock or two in my time and I just like the FEEL of them in my hands. I also like watching them cum, to see the cum squirt from the head is very erotic to me. I will also admit that once or twice I have tasted a hard cock...that was very exciting! I have many times licked the cum out of a wet, fresh-fucked pussy. Really great! But as you said, I do not feel that these times make me gay or bi, just sexy fun. After all if you limit yourself to the opposite sex only, you eliminate 50% of the world's population from your list of possible sex partners. Make no mistake though, if I was to go to a deserted island and able to take one person with me, it would be a woman! My romantic interest is in women, who I find to be beautiful, fantastic creatures! So, horny times call for horny measures...a pussy is great for erotic fulfillment, but cock is great in its place and time too.

kiwikid477 61M
99 posts
6/11/2006 12:33 am

Rose, if you don't mind, 12 pups I am currently in Afghaistan for about another 8 days and then off on a world trip over a number of years with my wife. Probably won't make the states for at least four years unfortunately.

Rose, There are a number of reasons I am attracted to you, not the least being that you are attracted to beautiful women, you have a straight forward no shit attitude, you know what you like and are not scared to announce it. Your writing style and everything you say and do are easy to relate to. please keep your posts cuming as they are so erotic and help to keep a horny bugger like me sane.
your Kiwi Mate

smirkingdevil 48M
237 posts
6/18/2006 6:38 am

Your friend seems homosexual to me (yes, I am a member of the "Christian right wing"). The mind is the biggest sex organ, right?. If he get's very hard thinking of going down on a guy, what more proof do you need? If the label fits...

I walked into my first Russian banja with boxers on and was faced with my friends' 4 swinging dicks. I dropped the boxers, then did the curious look around to see how "big" these guys were. Not one of us was hard and I liked it that way.

I get extremely horny when a woman sits on my face with my tongue in her vagina. I'd say I'm pretty heterosexual. On the other side, I can barely stand to watch a man kiss another man on the lips. Labels sometimes work.

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