weight issues?  

rm_roxie87 46F
17 posts
8/10/2005 10:12 am

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3/6/2006 1:41 am

weight issues?

So, I am annoyed as hell... Last week, I arranged to meet a gentleman that I had been chatting with for some time. We had a connection, and I was really looking forward to it. He came to meet me at my work( I am a bartender) and I introduced him to my coworkers/friends that were there. Now, everyone I work with knows my situation (married, but both play separately or together), so it wasn't an issue. He seemed very into me, and we went to dinner and came back to the bar for drinks. I had a great time, and was under the impression that he did too. I went to his room after, and we seemed to "connect" pretty well. I have not heard from him since. I was told by a good friend that was working that night that she overheard him talking to some guys about "fucking fat chicks" and it pissed me off. I am in no way "fat", I am not model type but curvy in all the right places, and have never had a complaint. So I assume that he doesnt want a friends with benfits type deal with me because I am not freakin Barbie? Such bullshit...

needmore69692 54M/53F
1 post
9/8/2005 12:05 pm

we know who you are and would let you sit on our face

rm_roxie87 46F

9/9/2005 8:38 am

Thanks for that... tho I am curious as to who you are. I know most local people would know me from my job, so give me a hint?...

hornyman696948 68M

9/9/2005 11:07 am

Let's meet or atleast talk ok? You sound very fun. Size to me does not matter it is what is inside that counts.

rm_roxie87 46F

9/9/2005 12:17 pm

Thanks, hornyman. That is very sweet. I don't get out of town much but I could talk. I always like to talk.

rm_habau 55M
1 post
9/13/2005 10:49 pm

He sounds like a real ass hole to me, the kind of guy that makes it hard on the rest of us, sorry that you had that happen to you. your a good looking lady , dont let it get to ya , some guys just are a wast of time.

rm_roxie87 46F

9/14/2005 3:15 pm

Thanks, "habau". I appreciate that, and trust me... I don't let things like that get to me, sometimes you just need to get stuff off your chest to whoever will listen. And I am sure there are girls who are the same way... a waste of time.


9/16/2005 5:48 pm

Hey, I'm moving to your area - I would love to get to know you even if this asshole wouldn't.

DirtDog56 60M
4 posts
9/20/2005 5:39 pm

roxie87,,,sorry the jerk was an asshole,,, you look like a nice lady,,, there are decent men out there,,, smile it's very becoming on you

snowman1876 40M
1 post
10/15/2005 11:18 pm

shallow very shallow, snowman1876. I am finding my way around this site with a bit of success. I would value the opportunity to successfully talk or meet you in person.
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sailorboy691945 71M

10/27/2005 11:14 pm

the guy is a real ass hole, would be glad to be your friend. just to let you know that you will meet some one that realy cares. hope the best for you.

WyoDuo 40M/38F

11/2/2005 3:09 pm

The guy was in it for the sex and that was it. I find it funny how men can bag on "fat chicks" but still sleep with them. Sounds like a severly insecure man trying to "save face" among male peers. Even if he had no clue as to who those peers were. We, as men, are raised with the same stereo types that women are. Supermodel skinny is the only acceptable body type. The truth of it is and has been proven that 80% of me are more attracted to a curvy figure. It's the insecurity that keeps men in competion with each other for no reason. I am married to a "curvy" girl and I love to lick every centemeter of her. Curvy women rock and so do you.

rythymaceofbass 62M

11/7/2005 7:11 pm

you deserve more attention than that. would love to help if your interested.

rm_knsinwy 53F
1 post
12/10/2005 4:29 pm

Hi Roxie, We are new to this and live sort of close by. Just from your pic, we can tell your a doll. Don't let anyone tell you different! Your name says it all.. Roxie ROCKS!

rm_luvoral06 52M

1/12/2006 11:14 am

I know quite a few jerks like that, but the way I was always taught, meat is for men and bones are foe the dogs...I love women with substance and others should be blessed as I have been. Ladies...Barbie doesn't exist. You are all sexy in my eyes

looking82901 56M
1 post
2/22/2006 12:09 pm

Sorry that happen to you, I would like to start talking to you. what bar are you at. and what town?

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