R.I.P. Daytona  

rm_rockDREWstar 31M
37 posts
3/20/2005 5:32 pm

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R.I.P. Daytona

So, about all that exciting stuff I said about Daytona...it didn't happen.
1) The weather sucked, and the sun was out half of the week
2) The clubs were really crowded, and my friends left really early
3) I have a really bad inferiority complex and seemingly can't ask a single girl to dance in fear of rejection (how stupid is that?)
4) I was in a van for 15 HOURS, in which I got to drive through KY, TN, GA, and Jacksonville FL

I don't know why I'm so terribly afraid of rejection...it's 2 simple letters: N-O. Why can I not accept the fact that a girl might not want to dance with me. It really isn't that big of a deal, yet I make it out to be. Can any ladies explain to me why this is? Why, for whatever reason, lots of guys have absolutely NO self-confidence?

The only thing I'm confident in is knowing that I'm a good lay, but I can never get it to that point and I end up settling for below-average girls to sleep with, rather than my ideal sexual partner. Something is wrong with me...because I definitely do not have this problem when I'm in a one-on-one situation. But, whenever I am in or around a large group of complete strangers, I feel like a complete tool.

It could be that I'm too nice...I don't like going up to a girl in a club and just grabbing her and dancing...I feel like a dick. I always have the need to ask nicely if the girl would kindly like to dance, and then I get rejected. I don't understand, and probably never will. It's just one of those things I will need to overcome if I ever want to be a secure male.

Or, maybe "Those" girls simply don't find me attractive. I don't find myself UNattractive, but I'm certainly no Colin Farrell or Orlando Bloom, or any other random celebrity of your choice.

Whatever it is, I just want to get laid...is that so wrong? Does it make me a shallow person if I want to fuck ATTRACTIVE women? I think that's one arena where I can afford to be a tad superficial...then again, maybe I should just settle for those who ARE attracted to me instead the ideal fantasy...and have below average children with below average social skills and below average potential.

Are there any ladies who can help me? I really need a boost in my self-confidence...any takers? I would strongly appreciate it. At this point, I don't care if you're 50, if you have a healthy sex drive, and are eager to please/be pleased, Hit me up and contact me...

That's all for now...L8ER

==================3~~~~ Drew


rm_SOHOTFORU2 59M/F
93 posts
3/20/2005 7:18 pm

What do you concider below average? Ya know, you could be missing out on some really super good times. Even if you fail to get laid some of these below average gals can show you lots of attention and can be lots of fun to hang with. Hopefully you are not being to forward with the ladies just wanting to get pussy, this is a hell of a turn off for most women. And so what if one says N-O, its no big deal, it may not even have anything to do with you as a person. Ladies also have there standards and can have a bad day just as us often as us guys. Give yourself a break, stand back and evaluate yourself and try and think like a woman would if she were you and you were she. Make sence? Give it a shot there Buddy, it can't hurt. Good luck and maybe next year will work out better for ya in Daytona.


green_eyed_lover 30F
28 posts
3/21/2005 8:17 am

hun, you are trying way too hard. half the girls in daytona for spring break are there to dance, drink, and tease guys. most of them never go home with guys. did any of your buddies hook up with some random chicks? you don't have to look like colin farrell to get laid, if you feel like you do, you are chasing after the wrong girls. and what exactly do you consider below average girls?


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