sex and love  

rm_riversexam 44M
87 posts
6/1/2006 6:01 pm

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6/3/2006 10:39 am

sex and love

sex and love.............the topic which is probably the most popular one on most peoples minds. i agree that there is a definite separation between the two, but that there doesnt have to be. sometimes we just want to be physical, maybe we are protecting something more intimate and vulnerable within us. but i've been there before and i know that sometimes, you just want physical. but the truth is, there is such a huge energy exchange when you have sex with someone. by nature, having sex is actually a spiritual and emotional event..........whether we are closed off to that, or not. it is a sacred act, as much as our modern world tries to portray it as something frivolous.

and where does love come in? well i think love comes in when you are willing to be "open" and experience that spiritual component. to me, that is where sex and love meet. because i can love someone, care for them, care about their well-being, enjoy their presence in my life.........and then if i have sex with them, it takes things to a deeper level. thats just my take on it. whether it was a one time thing or a long term seems that sex and love take 2 people to a very sacred place where we get to experience this profound stuff. Thats my opinion. and thats exactly how not easy it is to take the shroud off of your heart and be open and be willing to surrender to love and to be vulnerable.........

rm_pl1020long 40M
18 posts
6/2/2006 1:50 am

, i really like what you wrote about you, you are beautiful as a human being. I´m a dreamer too, may be some day we could share each other dreams. In my own words, in my own language I most say: "Tienes el rostro de un angel y la bondad de una diosa", wich means: "You have got the face of an angel and the kindness of a goddess". Take care gorgeous.

happyladychat 47F
3740 posts
6/2/2006 4:34 am

I find sex and love mutually exclusive.
Of course, if both can blend, probably we'll get a comfortable relationship that will last and both bodies in it would have infintie interest and passion with each other.

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