Met the girlfriend  

rm_reisaree 42F
817 posts
7/31/2006 2:00 pm

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9/7/2006 9:27 am

Met the girlfriend

Just as I figured.... she is a nice girl... and we hit it off... which of course pissed him off... but too bad... meeting her was exactly what I needed to recover....

I had always told him to move on... Told myself I didn't care if he were with another woman... and then it happened...he started dating someone and everything went berzerk in my head.... I didn't have a clue what I was feeling...

jealousy?...
sadness?....
anger?.....
did I want him back?...

And then I meet her... and all is well... my thoughts are sorted out... no i wasn't jealous...no I'm not sad...not mad... and definetly don't want him back....

It seems I just wanted to know for myself who this person was that he was doing everything in his power to keep away from me... It drove me nuts not knowing certain things... the biggest thing being why the hell is he keeping us apart? ...

Of course I found this out after meeting her yesterday.... And he was furious when she wanted me to go spend the afternoon at the lake with them... I told her no way when she asked... but she insisted... told her he would be furious... she told him its what she wanted... so, I went... and had a great time... made a new friend... learned some untruths she had been told...which I corrected....

At the end of the day.... a situation occured between her and him... to which he left without a word to anyone... and I was the one who spent the rest of the evening trying to calm her... and make him understand his fault in the situation...

Yes, I am quite aware this is most likely the oddest situation.... but such is the story of my entire life.... all I know is I am over the latest bump in my life's new journey... and I'm moving in a forward direction again....



buddhamike 105M
7006 posts
7/31/2006 2:31 pm

Good to see you're headed forward once again. Good for you.


rm_POODAH4 40M
5 posts
8/1/2006 12:38 pm

Newbie


Cinderella21957 59F

8/1/2006 11:45 pm

Hi reisa, good to see you are getting on with your life and that you have made a new friend.

Cinders!!

Cinders
If you take your eyes off your goals,
all you see are obstacles.


Cozy_Red 50F

8/3/2006 10:56 am

What an odd situation to be in, your a classy lady to handle it all so well.






rm_reisaree 42F
611 posts
8/4/2006 2:49 am

Thanks Mike, Salz and Cinders...

and Cozy... classy or retarded... I'm really not sure which it truly is..! Seriously... her kindness to me made it easy to give the same in return...


rm_malvolio69 55M

8/7/2006 10:20 pm

the truth will set you free.........


1deltafox 51M/47F

8/19/2006 6:57 pm

My mom and my dad's ex wife are best friends...even spent the night on occasion since she is my oldest brother's mom. Never really thought about how wierd that must have seemed looking from outside in...to me she was like another family member.


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