*gasp*.... I couldn't be....  

rm_reisaree 42F
817 posts
1/4/2006 1:19 am

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4/25/2006 3:11 am

*gasp*.... I couldn't be....

I really hate to ruin my sweet bitch image, but I'm wondering if I might also be a heathen?...I'm hoping that you all can help me decide what exactly defines someone as being a heathen..

I know I am a bitch... this is established in my profile... and pretty much anyone who knows me will confirm this fact....now I must go on to say that I am one of the nicest bitches you will ever meet... but...*sigh*... a bitch nonetheless...see this is what aggressive women are sometimes referred to... where as aggressive men are simply called...well.... aggressive ...now although I call myself a bitch....I would kindly ask that no man refer to me as such... the words, "Hey bitch.." said to me by a man that is not related to me will pretty much mean that I am going to either...
(A.)smack the shit outta ya...
(B.)destroy something valuable of yours
(C.)do something gross to your next meal....

But is being a bitch and being a heathen the same thing?.. Nah...I don't think so... I think they are two different things...

These are what I consider to be some of my "heathen ways"..I cuss too much, drink til I'm drunk on occasion, skip church every week, and sometimes I'm just out and out mean... *nods*....but... I do draw the line at being mean to animals, children or the elderly....only mean to those that can stick up for themselves..~!...

So... is this being a heathen?.. Or what?... I know, I could just google heathen and find out the easy way what type of person it refers to...but where's the fun in that?.. besides... I'm guessing that different people probaly have different ideas of who fits the description of heathen... I probaly am a bit of a heathen...but I'm not losing any sleep over this fact... I hope any of you out there with a bit of heathen in ya, don't lose sleep over it either...

For gawds sake... what the hell have I just gone on and on about?... HEATHENS?!! well.. what do you expect from someone that spent christmas eve in a bar~!!??

roger_the_hound 57M

1/4/2006 4:53 am

'Though labels are given and taken,
They often are really mistaken.
A heathen and bitch?
Your prancings bewitch
This hound and you plump up my bacon.

Ars longa, vita brevis.

RevJoseyWales 69M/66F
14393 posts
1/4/2006 2:01 pm

Strictly speaking, a heathen is someone who has not accepted Christ. A wild semi or uncivilized person. Somehow, I don't think that's you. Perhaps, but not likely. Now we COULD see you a possibly pagan, but that's anopther story. Bitch? Nah, not you Reis. NO WAY! Told you many times. we LOVE chicks in chainmail, LMAO! Damn, any man who DOESN'T like an agreesive woman isn't worth having or being around. A real man wants a partner, not an anchor. Hell, you pretty much described Carol & I too! Cuss way too much, toke way too much, see churches for weddings only. But then again, damn near anyone that's fun to be around would fit your description of "heathen", LOL. We think Roger has a thing for you. But then again, so does EVERYBODY, LMAO!!! Fun poetry tho'. Must give credit where it is due. Glad to see you back and in normal(?) form, We've been worried about you.

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

RevJoseyWales 69M/66F
14393 posts
1/4/2006 2:06 pm

Oh, and in certain circumstances, being told what a hot, sexy, beautiful, etc, bitch you are can be a very good thing! Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

rm_reisaree 42F
611 posts
1/4/2006 6:42 pm

Joe & Carol~~I'm beginning to see some sunshine peeking thru the fog I think... and yeah..to be honest I'm not one that is highly offended when someone I know calls me a bitch...all depends on *how* its said...if its all in fun..then its all good...

And that sweetie Roger and I go way back when we shared a group together... he's quite the poet....

and I'm as Christian as they come btw.... I am what I affectionately refer to myself as a *back row baptist*.....stopping here cuz damn...this just sparked another post for my blog....

Thanks you guys.... *kisses*

RevJoseyWales 69M/66F
14393 posts
1/5/2006 6:32 am

Andyou're more than welcome, little one, LOL. I know all about Southern Baptists, was one myself at one time. Born in Milledgeville GA, so I didn't have much choice, don'tcha know, LOL. But religion is something I don't delve into, I kinda wind up pissin' people off. So glad to see ya back to your usual self, we were getting a bit concerned. We really want to bitch slap yer ol'man around for about a week for you being in a bar alone on Christmas Eve. Just no good reason for that. We're just gonna put that spotlight on you for all of 06. Then you can prance and twirl to your heart's content, LMAO. The electric bill will be on us.
Joe & Carol

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

cozy1957 59M

1/5/2006 6:47 am

Maybe a touch of heathen and a touch of plain ol' naughty...and I won't try to use the "B" word in a sentence to describe you. I don't know you well enough to do that safely!

andypandy1946 70M
1 post
2/6/2006 3:47 pm

i am an English gentleman, 6 foot tall, grey blonde hair, extremely trim, 59 years, got money, not a fortune you understand, but i will not stand around and have ANY woman called a bitch, unless she likes it. women are to be appreciated and adored, and sometimes ignored.

wantonwill 60M

2/19/2006 7:45 pm

a bitch is a female dog...a heathen is a person who wants nothing to do with the God who created them.

xantar2 65M

3/3/2006 4:22 am

I don't think you have to worry about being a heathen or not. Mostly it are labels to make things understandeble for others. Just be yourselves and do the things you like. And if the call it heathen bitchy or what ever, just let them, they need to do so because they miss the talents te behave so themselves.
Greetings and enjoy yourselves with it.

rm_aff2go2 61M

3/6/2006 6:58 am

Yeah, yeah, yeah... spit or swallow? LOL
kiddin' (grin)


3/22/2006 12:48 pm


from what i've read from you so far, i see no heathen. also, i see no bitch either. i see a sensitive, caring, and giving lady. who, maybe has been "messed over" in the past. possibly had a bad relationship or two. and, might just be a tad bit overprotective of her feelings. besides if you really are a bitch, then i have found the best way to deal with a bitch is to give her a bone. because everyone knows a bitch is just a female dog. you're not a dog. right? look, just because a person has an opinionated attitude doesn't make that person a bitch, (or a bastard in a man's case). it just means you have a belief held, often without positive knowledge or proof. an evaluartion based on special knowledge. a judgment or estimation. this BTW is the definition of opinion. and the best way to deal with an opinionated person, (or any person for that matter) is with lots of love. hugs work well also. here's what a hug is for me... Helpful Uplifting Gesture! I LOVE YOU! with lots of hugs and kisses too.


3/22/2006 12:50 pm

i don't know how that lil smiley got in there. but he's not supposed to be. ok?

rm_cm4u88 54M
1 post
3/25/2006 10:12 am

A heathen? Perhaps a little. But a bitch, definitely. Being a heathen is between you and your "god, supreme being, or other entity that you worship". Being a bitch is between you and another person or people. Personally, I prefer a bit of a bitch. It shows you have your own thoughts and ideas and aren't afraid to express yourself. I've actually been to several sites looking for the right person with just the right amount of bitchiness. As for whether or not you're a heathen, that's something you need to deal with.

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