first experience on AFF  

rm_redhottogo 48M/50F
27 posts
11/21/2005 12:20 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

first experience on AFF

Well....we've chatted for about two weeks and he always wants to know when we can hook up. He is really a cutie too. So after all the heavy chats...I surprise him at his job.....ask him if he wants to get a drink? He replies me at HH across the street. I wait and wait for over an hour....what kind of fool am I? He never shows. That's why he doesn't have anyone....He's a flake, rude and inmature to boot.

Next thing, this same day, another guy.....tells me he's having second thoughts about "our relationship"...what exactly do we share other than a few kisses and a drink? I truly saw it coming a few days before. Everytimes he spoke to me, he stuttered...he had not done that before we kisses....I really do understand his situation but... we had chemistry...he too agreed....he was to scared to become involved with me for fear he would wreck my home life. Hubby knew I really found guy "hot" and "sexy". No problem there....would I reget this relationship...if it truly began? Who knows....I'm sure I don't. After this day....I have been emotionally drained and cried a lot. Thanks guys for all your help.....Then one may wonder why I am activly seeking a female companion at this point.

Lookin_4_Fun52 64M
40 posts
11/22/2005 9:33 pm

As I posted on the OKC discussion group...the guys a jerk, and there is more where he came from. Sorry your first experience with AdultFriendFinder was so lousy. There are a significantly greater number of guys on this site than ladies, so you're more likely to have more contacts. I've always believed in letting things start slowly at first and let your intuition be your guiding light....what your gut says is usually better than your head, or in men's cases, their little heads.....but that doesn't mean you have to turn to women. There are a number of advantages there, but I always felt that man/woman added up better than man/man or woman/woman. You can get the calculator out and check it yourself, if you doubt me on this one....
Wish you much better luck in your next encounter....

dustyedsall26 37M

11/23/2005 9:28 pm


easy_8 56M

11/27/2005 8:31 am

You may have spooked him showing up at his job...hmmm, but I guess he told you where he worked, huh? I'm with Dusty...amazing..

rm_redhottogo 48M/50F
26 posts
11/27/2005 11:28 am

YES........He told me where he worked and his hours....about three days after we started chatting. He said his fantsay was for an older woman to come to his work and give him a blow job in the back room....Like Isaid...he begged me to meet him every night we chatted. right

GraspCrownRusts 46M
780 posts
11/30/2005 6:58 am

He had a pretty awesome fantasy! Mine involves the conference table instead of a backroom

1st guy: you nailed it when you said immature.

2nd guy: prolly freaked out in the end about the hubby thing and didn't come completely clean with ya...

Just my 12 cents...

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