Apology to the Ones That Have Slipped By  

AshenMagusDonor 71M
29 posts
2/24/2006 5:46 am

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Apology to the Ones That Have Slipped By

Now...this is not normally what I write...so please bare with me. I was just sitting here thinking....thinking about the women that I had winked at or put on my hot list or they had put me on thiers...joined my network...or even messaged or....gone as far as talking on the phone.

I guess this is where I get confused....what happened to them...you know...the ones that you talk to and set up a meeting...or talk about meeting. At the time things seem to be going just right. Then it happens....you stop talking...or they don't show up. They never return your email...never answer your messages...nothing.

Now...I know this has been written here over and over again...all the time. But just what gives ladies....If you don't want to meet...or even talk any more....then just come out and say it...good god...we are not children any more. We can handle it. But just don't leave someone hanging...tell us!!!!

Now...to be fair...I know a lot of guys that do the same thing...and hey...I am probably just as guilty as anyone....but I don't mean to be. Sometimes I just might forget to write...or forget you are just as important as anyone else I talk to....or get to busy....

Do you see what I'm getting at....we all need to go that extra step...take that extra time...be there...show up...and if we tend to part and the emails get to the point of non-existant...then be kind...write and tell us why...

For the ones that I have let slip by...or maybe tend to have lost track of...I am sorry...sorry that we never had the chance to meet.

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
2/24/2006 6:12 am

Sounds familiar!

Purry {=}


julie4daddy34 45F
599 posts
2/24/2006 7:19 am

I can relate to you on this subject, and yes, it does happen to women also. I've written before about how nobody takes the time or consideration anymore. My peeve has always been it only takes a minute out of 24 hours to stop and say "hey I cant make it" or "I'm not interested". I'd rather someone be totally upfront and honest with me as opposed to just disappearing. Lets face it, not everyone we meet is going to be what we're looking for, and if the person you meet isnt for you..then just say so.

oldman1776 78M
3164 posts
2/24/2006 8:19 am

It happens to both men and women.

I think that some people on here that think that there just meeting for sex and then chicken out and don't think they need to apologize or say hey I don't think your my type after all.

trysasha 56F

2/24/2006 10:23 am

This is sadness talking. It happens so often with people in realtime as well as online. The issue is what needs are being met and how often will those needs arise again.

Take heart. They will return.


rm_solystis 70M
167 posts
3/3/2006 1:45 am

Fully agree


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