HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!! MY LAST BITCH!!!!  

rm_randybirch 44M/45F
96 posts
12/30/2005 3:39 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!! MY LAST BITCH!!!!

ok..so I have a lot of bitches but not that can be discused here. ANYWAY, SO this is what ticked off my nice quiet am that I woke up too. A friend of mine asked if I could use up my credits with her catalog company because she was going on hold for a while (she cant handle her life, she stuck with this for less than a year BUT I encouraged her and she did WELL!! She took a lot of my stuff as tips and Ideas and I got no credit.

See, on the surface, her life is ok, but underneath it is shi*ty and HEY, that is not my fault. So I write her a long letter basically saying that "I never meant to hurt you so tonight, I'm hiding in my closet!" OK!!! OK!! THAT WAS LAME!!! Come on....its 5:30 am and my deluded sense of humor would not permit me to put a hit out like that LOL!!

Anyway, I admit I didn't use that calculator and because I HELPED HER GET STARTED in the business, she is getting a discount and so do I. when I saw the total I sent her joking comment that I was never any good at math. I WROTE IN MY THIRD Sentence I WAS GOING TO PAY IN FULL!! But my question to her was I could do without a lot of what I purchased, so I ASKED POLITELY was it too early to change the order, AND POLITFULLY asked if that was the case, could she return the items I changed my mind about.

Now its funny this wasn't supposed to be an advice letter but I just thought maybe some of you could help me out!

Now I already apologized for putting her in a bad mood but DID Point out that, if she read the letter carefully, it was very carefree and no cursing and stuff, she would see that all I wanted to know is if it was a problem to return some items!!!? and if not DONT WORRY. I even offered to drop off her check at work!!!!

Anyway, she was rude and said I don't listen and cant read. But I was all peaches and creme and said if she read the letter slowly she would see this was a SIMPLE QUESTION and not a DIRE EMEGENCY!!!!

Anyway, the old me woulda went off and lost a friend. But I try to give Everyone The benefit of the doubt. catalog company because she was going on hold for a while (she cant handle her life, she stuck with this for less than a year BUT I encouraged her and she did WELL!! She took a lot of my stuff as tips and Ideas and I got no credit.

See, on the surface, her life is ok, but underneath it is shi*ty and HEY, that is not my fault. So I write her a long letter basically saying that "I never meant to hurt you so tonight, Im hiding in my closet!" OK!!! OK!! THAT WAS LAME!!! Come on....its 5:30 am and my deluded sense of humor would not permit me to put a hit out like that LOL!!

Anyway, I admit I didnt use that calculater and because I HELPED HER GET STARTED in the business, she is getting a discount and so do I. when I saw the total I sent her joking comment that I was never any good at math. I WROTE IN MY THIRD SENTenSE I WAS GOING TO PAY IN FULL!! But my question to her was I could do without a lot of what I purchsed, so I ASKED POLITELY was it too early to change the order, AND POLITFULLY asked if that was the case, could she return the items I changed my mind about.

Now its funny this wasnt supposed to be an advice letter but I just thought maybe some of you could helop me out!

Now I already apologized for putting her in a bad mood but DID Point out that, if she read the letter carefully, it was very carefree and no cursing and stuff, she would see that all I wanted to know is if it was a problem to return some items!!!? and if not DONT WORRY. I even offered to drop off her check at work!!!!

Anyway, she was rude and said I dont listen and cant read. But I was all peaches and creme and said if she read the letter slowly she would see this was a SIMPLE QUESTION and not a DIRE EMEGENCY!!!!

Anyway, the old me woulda went off and lost a friend. But I try to give EVERYONE The benefit of the doubt. So I told her when the package comes in to let me know. OH..also..she told me the wrong date to have the oreder in, luckily I did it 4 days early. ANd she also said this was NOT her last order, that she would do one more catalog.

Anyway, well, I can go all day but I feel better having vented. New Year Coming let bygones be such.

Ok, I have to go...sleepy still...and going for a massage at 9a!! WOOHOO!!!!

Anyone that needs more details on what happened in order to comment, let me know. If you comment THANKS!!!!!!!!!!!! I promise in the New Year to keep up my blog but more importantly, knowing how it is to express yourself and feel like others are listening so I will be reading more blogs and responding.

SORRY IF THIS IS DISJOINTED!! I am wicked tired. I may edit later but wanted you to get the idea.

going to get some sleep. Thanks and

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO EVERYONE!!! MAY YOU ALL BE BLESSED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have plenty of love to go around!!!!!!!
Lux....


mackjohnny69 59M

12/30/2005 10:01 am

Have a happy new year also. Things well get better for you.


lickyourpassion 44M
174 posts
1/1/2006 12:11 pm

Lux,

That is an interesting story. It seems you had a simple miscommunication that expanded and interesting story. It seems you had a simple miscommunication that expanded and interesting story. It seems you had a simple miscommunication that expanded and interesting story. It seems you had a simple miscommunication that expanded and...

Things get twisted when someone reads what they believe you are saying into what is said. I have been there. It looks like you were indeed very tired when you wrote your blog, but I get the general idea. Friendships are priceless and I hope you work it all out. Catalog issues will fade in time. If the friendship is 4 real, no worries, you will work it out, you will both insist on working it out. Beliedat. It seems you had a simple miscommunication that expanded and intersting story. It seems you had a simple miscommunication that expanded and interesting story. You see, things easily get twisted up and the sense is lost and the original feeling of the message is replaced with the wrong emotional course of the writing alltogether. Take care of you.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LYP


lickyourpassion 44M
174 posts
1/2/2006 11:34 pm

Lux,

Hope you have solved your problem. I've updated my blog a lil bit. HMB anytime. This has been a crazy new year already. Hope yours is going great. Take care of you.


LYP


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