The never ending question - Is it worth it?  

TakesTeatsStood 50M
1358 posts
11/2/2005 10:46 am

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The never ending question - Is it worth it?

Telling myself I am going to go for quality and not quantity I will try today to re-address the question of the value of AdultFriendFinder to the average MALE - women you will have to decide on your own if it is worth paying to be a silver or gold member.

I have been a member on and off for several years - in my pre-silver days I actually did meet one woman - she had managed to slip in one of those sneaky clues into her profile (actually it wasn't sneaky and I think I just caught it before they did). But that is it - one person - and that was before the blogs existed.

Once I got my silver membership I was able to mail people at will - which didn't mean I suddenly had lots of women wanting to talk to me, it just meant I was writig a LOT of mail and getting no replies - or the occasional "I don't screw around with married men" comments.

But persistence did pay off and I have managed to meet a few very nice women from AdultFriendFinder - and I felt that the end result was enough to justify paying for another year. I mean would YOU pay $100 to meet just one person that you mihgt have some chemistry with? Someone that you were at least somewhat familiar with before you ever met? For me, and my financial situation it was worth it. For many others I am sure it isn't.

Thankfully you can still be a blogger for free - I have actually 'met' more women via my blog than I ever did with my other membership - the problem of course is distance and I have never met anyone in person that I have communicated with via the blog. And who knows - the big wigs at AdultFriendFinder gave several of us 6 month GOLD memberships last summer - maybe they will decide to do the same agin in the near future

I'm going to post this one and then post my thoughts on the do's and don'ts of initiating contact with the lovely women of this site.

expatbrit49 62M

11/2/2005 2:36 pm

Nick, I think thats reflective of most guys experiance. i know from my point that untill I started my Blog I had mailed and mailed and only met a couple of women, but since the blog my mail box is full even a few locals.

I dropped my membership for a week or so but blogging and not being able to check out profiles of people who comment on the blog was a real pain so I forked over the cash again

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
11/2/2005 9:58 pm

I elected to drop out like my ol pal up there. However, I am going to stay standard. I miss being able to look at the profiles of the bloggers, but I can do without it.

duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
11/3/2005 6:15 pm

I have not noticed an increase in my emails or winks since I have started blogging. But I have noticed an increase in the winks I receive, because I have posted a different picture on my profile. I have noticed a slight increase in emails. Funny, now that I am not really looking.



11/8/2005 6:32 pm

you seem very interesting

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