Someone close by is reading my blogs....  

TakesTeatsStood 50M
1358 posts
5/4/2005 5:46 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Someone close by is reading my blogs....

Last night someone that I had chatted with in the past said hello, and in the course of our chat I revealed to her that I had a blog.

So now she has read several of my posts and probably will read more. Today I thought about posting and then found myself thinking how she might like/not like whatever I wrote about. Which led me to this post.

Have any of you met someone in person or that you had a very good chance of meeting in person that read your blogs and started asking you about them?

I know for a fact that some people have met folks from here on AdultFriendFinder and then edited or removed posts they had made in an apprent attempt to protect someone elses feelings or privacy.

I am not going to change anything here, but on the off chance I do ever meet this person I do not know if I would 'blog' about it.

Snufflesthekitty 41F

5/4/2005 6:39 pm

I would ask if you have an option to have your blog on or off your profile. My blog was on my profile, so the men I have spoke with in recent weeks have all read what I had to say, with good and bad effects. All I can say is be true to yourself! No matter who, no matter what.

PailsDiverHonks 55F

5/4/2005 7:09 pm

Post, funny you wrote this...I was working on a post offline about people that email me NOT reading my blog and I send them to my blog to read it. I think they will learn more about me through my blog then through my profile. If they don’t like what they read then they are not for me.
I won’t write about my encounters. Maybe one day I will.
I have met a few who read my blog and we talked about made good conversation

Barbiebunny69 43F

5/4/2005 9:03 pm

Made good conversation for me as well when we met. However the crazy sex stories seemed to be the ones they remembered

jrmart 50M

5/4/2005 10:15 pm

mmmm Do you consult everything in the chat? Does not it take own decisions? You are a Funny man.....One sees that you have a lot of free time, to spend it in this site...bye

sportyfun56 106M

5/4/2005 11:18 pm

I have met someone from here that said to me.. "hey, I left a comment on your blog today"... I must admit that was a bit spooky. I've always had the perception that these blogs were my chance to write and have fun without accountability. Now I know that someone is reading my blog that I have met and may meet again someday, and there are others that are local her that have read my blog. It made me very careful about my "party blog", because one of them was there. It can be a slippery slope in that regard.


5/5/2005 1:37 am

Ithink you can kinda write about something ;however either not mention that person`s name and not go into the graphical personal content. There is some of that going on in here right now , and I don`t feel that is right to air your diferences or relations in that matter

missy97330 47F

5/5/2005 2:17 am

I have written about sexual encouters (yes, plural) on my blogs, but I don't metion that I met them off AdultFriendFinder. Then there are the guys who I haven't fooled around with, only met, and they have read my blog. It is a bit odd, but whatever. I am up front about my slutty behavior as of late

I usually ask them not to mention it to others that I am on here. So far so good.

expatbrit49 62M

5/5/2005 2:36 am

Not happened to me, I look to see if any of the comments are from locals but its not happened yet. I suppose the local women are to busy fucking, to read a blog, The problem is they are not fucking me LOL

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
5/5/2005 6:20 am

my lastest lover the dentist is a member on here and he always reads up on me lol to see what i'm up too,i will be honest in my post and won't change the wording even for him,if he doesn't like what i sometimes write tough.
in saying hes a dentist i give nothing away as no one on his profile does it say what he does.
Past lovers and friends read it and comment to me privately as they some times worry about me,bless them,

I'm a

i'm here to stay

TakesTeatsStood 50M
505 posts
5/5/2005 6:59 am

jrmart.... I assume you mean blog and not chat.... I certainly don't consult everyone about every 'move' I make - I thought it was a good topic and wanted other's opinions. As to having a lot of free time.... it doesn't take much time to check out the blogs. I certainly do spen d more time than a lot of others though.

leyndokona2 49F

5/5/2005 8:23 am

The only person from AdultFriendFinder I have met in person has never mentioned my blog so I don't know if he read them. For some reason I never talk about the blogs to him. But there are things I have thought about writing on here that I decided to leave out in case he read this.

vegas_sinner04 30F

5/5/2005 10:35 am

a couple of the guys that i have talked to, have mentioned my blog. they always mention the odd stuff but it makes for great conversation. plus if they read my blog, they kinda know what they are getting into. i'm very honest oin my blog and just write about whatever comes to mind. i don't edit it or leave things out of anyone. i have noticed a lot of local people look at my blog but very very few of them leave a comment.

rockwriter58 56M
1389 posts
5/5/2005 12:00 pm


This is always a problem when writing... how do you face the folks you write about... or how do people perceive you differently after they read something you wrote?
I think if you are writing about real people their identities need to be protected unless you have specific permission to give information away. I am careful to leave out key facts when I write about real folks on my blog. If I met someone through AdultFriendFinder I would at least have a conversation with them before I wrote about it in my blog.

IPman 61M
313 posts
5/5/2005 5:04 pm

PN: Great question, I have intentionally not told my lover I am blogging on here because I don’t want to feel censored or feel the need to explain myself.

If I am writing about someone on here, I try to keep it light; it’s so easy to misinterpret the written word. I really try to be mindful of other people’s feelings, it’s easy to bruise and impossible to take it back.

TakesTeatsStood 50M
505 posts
5/5/2005 8:10 pm

Ty again for all your comments - IP - thats actually the reason I started blogging with this name as opposed to my paid membership name. Go figgure I tell someone I might meet about my blog. But honestly I told her feeling that she could read it and would not assume anything or jump to conclusions about me.

I am sure if she were to come across something that concerned her or she was unsure of, she would ask me. And yeah, I am saying all this guessing she might read it - lol.

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11240 posts
5/6/2005 3:51 am

maybe I should just change my premium membership to a new handle .... which I would have to think of first then.... mmmmmmmm

jrmart 50M

5/6/2005 7:36 pm

Mmmm ok thank you for answering, and if this makes him happy, that well not?

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