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rm_pleaser142 68M
6 posts
5/13/2005 5:08 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Still looking!

Well I joined AdultFriendFinder to meet people with "open minds". People who wanted to enjoy life openly, like I do. People who would have no biases, and accept others for who they are. I read comments from women, like "Where are all the honest men?", or from men who say they are bi, send a wink and that's all you hear from them. It doesn't take much to write a brief note. Then there are the ones who you send a message to and they can't even send a brief "not interested" reply back.
I used to just "write letters" to ads in the old swinger magazines, enclose a few polaroids, lol, and had more success. What really irritates me is that most women, couples are all hung up on this age thing. Isn't that a bias?
Can mature men not fuck anymore?
I'll take up that challenge.
Or younger women looking for mature men, can't even send a wink or a message. I'm open,honest and looking for fun. I have no hangups! It appears others are feeling the same way. Read a lot of the profiles to sense the frustration. Women don't be shy, you can message men if you want!
Why do we have to take the first step, AGAIN?

Double_duece69 37M

5/13/2005 8:48 am

I agree with you there pleaser. I've actually had women reply to my first e-mail to them and they say I sound lke a wondeful guy and would love to chat/meet-up. Only to write back and never hear from them again. Its kinda disheartening. Well hopefully we both have some better luck.

kindria47 59F

6/2/2005 2:30 pm

Well, Well, good minds think alike!..Im the same way, im very real,to real,I think I scare them away! I have battled many battles, one of them is Cancer!,but I won that battle!! wooohooo! but the *shy* mind id a funny thing! Nice to meet you!.Take care and I hope you get what you are looking for!...KINDRIA

rm_SlowOldGirl 69F

9/11/2005 5:27 am

Well now I for one am glad you did this blog thingy. First time i've checked one out. The possible problem is ....... if you send a wink to a standard member such as I, then you will only get a wink or added to the hotlist back, since we are not allowed to send emails with our memberships. So please take note and if You are seriously interested then please You send an email as is required by this system in order for standard members to reply. Some of us actually do reply to all emails sent to us. But it is amazing how many wink or add you to their hotlist and never send an email so that you have the choice of replying. And as in my case I often do not come to this site for many weeks therefore I would not be replying possibly as quickly as some of you would wish it. Also if you stipulate in your profiles reasons as to which you will ignore people then you possibly have cut the ties before either of you have had a chance to discover if you would be interested or not. Ex asking for a photo in order to get a reply as a stiputation of whether you will reply back or not ....... well that tells me you arent the least bit interested in getting to know anyone unless they pass your personal visual test first or that you are just making a photo collection as so many on here are. Well only my 2 cents worth. Do as you please with it.

likethembig71 45F

1/20/2007 1:06 pm

well my problem is traveling...I like my discretion as well
if you were in my area yes I would visit you in your room
to see what you have.....but you have to remember...I have had
older men that say they can still perform and when I meet them
they say "wow must be my nerves" that I am sick of hearing
so sometimes age can matter sorry....but fun to find out

ClassyLady4955 67F

3/22/2007 9:43 am

Well like you pleaser....I'm of the older generation...but hey.. us oldies are goodies....try us you might like us....we are more willing to pleasure....nice and slow....why the's nice to just let it's an amazing that no one should miss out on...boy did I get off the subject....but manners mean alot don't keep me waiting reply now

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