To Swing or Not to Swing That is the Question?  

rm_platoondaddy 39M
22 posts
10/9/2005 3:14 pm

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To Swing or Not to Swing That is the Question?

Well it has been a long time since I have had the chance to sit down and write. I wanted to know your thoughts on swinging; The Good and the Bad. I have been in this lifestyle for about four years now. And have met some fun and exciting people. You could even say that with each experience, I would get bolder and bolder, wilder and wilder with what I’m willing to try and experience. Many things that were once a fantasy or a dream have now become a reality. That threesome with two women is still a long way off but I know it will come one day lol. But I have met a lot of people who have been great as a person and great in bed. I don’t think so far that I have met anyone that I would not want to be friends with. But at the same time I have felt that I have lost something in sharing myself with people. Now when I meet someone for simple relationships I consider the lifestyle that I have created and try to make them adapt to that. Many times ending with me going back to what I have become comfortable with and that is swinging. Those who began in this lifestyle are they predestined to continue? If we were to stop could we stop the dreams and feeling that we get from having group sex? Or is this another way to open up and explore that we are and what our likes and dislike? How far are we willing to go for sexual pleasure? To Swing or Not to Swing that is the question?

GRollingson1128 55M
2 posts
10/9/2005 7:18 pm

To answer the question of whether to swing or not is such a personal/individual thing. Personally, I think people swing to release themselves from the repression that is indoctrinated in us from birth as part of a judeo-christian society that is basically hypocritical at its core. We validate our "perversions" and "base" nature by sharing our fantasies, bodies and affection with like-minded individuals especially if some of these feelings involve sex acts that are not strictly heterosexual, monogamous and within the sanctity of the marriage bed.

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