Questions and Answers about this lifestyle.  

rm_platoondaddy 39M
22 posts
7/4/2006 7:28 pm
Questions and Answers about this lifestyle.


There was a question asked by a young lady that I thought
may help other people.

You have asked many questions and I hope to shed some light
on the confusion that you have. I applaud you for your adventurous
nature, I too started in this lifestyle at a young and have
continued for the people, the adventure, and just hot fun
sex. Now many people that I have met on this network have
many reasons for joining and are looking for many different
things, so I guess you have to first know what you are looking
for and be willing to settle for nothing less or nothing
more than that. However lets get to your questions.

“WHAT MAKES A GUY ACTUALLY STAY WITH ONE GIRL?” I would say
stability. There are many relationship that endure other
relationships on the side, there was a study done that showed
65% of women have cheated on there husband, and 67% of man
have cheated on there wife. When I heard that I just wondered
then why don’t they just swing together? Our society has
taught us that it is important to keep one man and one woman
and you live together and stay to death do us apart, now not
all societies adopt this philosophy, but many do. So it
is a taboo what we do within the swinger community.

“WHY IS HOT SEX ENOUGH VARIETY FOR A DUDE? DOES THE NEED FOR
THE EXPLORING TAKE OVER? THE POSSIBILITY OF CONQUERING
A NEW HUNT? OR IS IT JUST FUCKING A HOTTER CHICK?” Now lets
define hot sex. Humm, that is it we can’t put hot sex in a box.
I know for me every time I have sex, either as a couple or with
a new couple, or woman I am always thinking how can I make
this better, how can I top this experience, and I look and
go for it. Even if I meet a new woman and we began to communicate,
I am always thinking what if I do this, or if she tries this
do you think that she would like this? Sometimes hotter
for me becomes hotter for someone else. As long as we as men
or women have an imagination and we believe that are partner
will be willing to please your desires will continue to
imagine and seek those desire. On the flip side to that coin
if we have a women that is not striving to please or desires
then we will look for that attention somewhere else. My
little saying is that sex is always the same with a woman;
it is how they suck a cock that is different. So in my quest
I am always seeking a woman or two that can suck a good cock.

“WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE DISCREET? Simple, I just don’t want
everyone to know. Now the reasons for being discreet may
be different, someone mentioned cheating, I could be the
profession that they are in. Some just don’t like a like
of people in there business, but whatever the reason is
the majority of the people wants to be discreet.

“WHAT ABOUT KISSING, CARESSING, HOLDING HANDS?” Now is
someone that you are dating, fucking, or whatever you want
to call it is not pleasing you are satisfying your needs
in or out of the bedroom, I think that you need to communicate
with that person. Communication is the only way that you
are going to be satisfied in any type of relationship rather
it is long term or just sex. Trust me, in every relationship
that I have rather it is my long term or just the one that I
am fucking I let people know what I want and how I want it,
and I expect the same.

Overall I think that this lifestyle is unique and require
special care. If you are seeking a long term relationship
or just a fuck buddy, you have to be open and honest with yourself
and with the person that you are with.

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