Frustrated and disappointed. Has this happened to you?  

rm_pirate675900 57M
4 posts
9/2/2005 4:06 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Frustrated and disappointed. Has this happened to you?


I don't know if it is just me or if other have the same problem. I email someone and wait for a reply but I get nothing. I don't mind if I am not what you are interested in, or looking for but it would be really nice if people would at least send a short note saying thanks but no thanks, you are not what I am looking for etc...
One never knows I might be exactly what you are looking for but the way I wrote my profile may not be the best.
I guess I am just venting here but I do thing it is polite to reply to someone when they write to you.

volcanoinu23 52M

9/2/2005 5:07 pm

I would agree that politness does not exist here. Frankly I don't care how many emails the women get. On the other hand, I have had to change my mindset (it helps that I have a few friends to meet with). When I have time to waste, that is wehn I write emails. When I get a reply, it is like winning th freakin' lottery. The most important thing you can do is market yourself with gusto!

Good Luck!


justsayhi2005 51F

9/2/2005 5:25 pm

There are many blogs written that are devoted to the rude and obnoxious replies women get to a simple no thank you when an email is received from someone they aren't interested in. I used to make it a point to try to answer as many emails as possible but now I hardly answer any of them for that very reason. I mean, who needs it! Also it may or may not surprise you to hear that most women on the site receive so many emails in a day that even when you try it's very hard to answer anywhere near all of them.


looking4fun68123 50F

9/2/2005 8:15 pm

I will answer all emails unless it is a picture of your dick or something rude like "Let's get together and fuck". I figure if they show me no respect why should I show them any????


gunner54h 69M/53F  
59 posts
12/12/2005 8:54 pm

I put on our profile, "no one liners!" We still get them that can't read, don't care, or really don't have a clue as how to present themselves. Simple- if you don't have anything on your profile, write it to them. If they still answer no thanks, take it for that.


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