I guess this IS just like real life...  

rm_pipeline642 40M
2 posts
12/2/2005 9:06 pm

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I guess this IS just like real life...

I'm such a sucker. I took the bait hook, line, and sinker. Mesmerized by the bright lights and endless possibilities, I let down my guard and allowed AdultFriendFinder to lure me into a fascinating virtual world that is... no different from the real world.

Having just ended a nearly two-year relationship in August and being in the process of starting a new business, I found myself single, but very busy. Not having much time to meet new people, I decided to give AdultFriendFinder a try. Why not? I seemed like an ideal prospect; an entire group of people looking for unconventional relationships that I could screen and select from before making contact. Surely it would be easy to meet several charming, vibrant, witty ladies and pick one for a friendship with bennies, right?


As it turns out, this virtual world is just like the real world, only worse! The guy/girl ratio is terribly one-sided, making it difficult for a guy to distinguish himself in a crowd. To make matters worse, the men on this site are even more competitive than in the worst "meat-market" bar scene. It takes much less confidence and skill to approach a girl on-line than in person, resulting in girls de-sensitizing themselves after being assaulted by a steady stream of tools sporting cock-shots trying to score!

I'm not going to give up, though. I've once again learned this lesson: If it seems too good to be true... you know the rest. I have no illusion that I'm the most attractive, charming, skilled guy around, but I know I have more to offer than a lot of guys. I'll just have to re-group and try a little harder.

I'm done complaining for now. I'll revisit this after some time to think...

LustGoddess2469 50F  
2453 posts
12/2/2005 9:50 pm

If only you were closer...

Sorry you're having such a hard time. Your profile is excellent, and your pictures aren't bad either. Don't know why you can't find at least one lady that is deserving.

Best of luck.


rm_lickmepretty 51F
851 posts
12/3/2005 6:22 am

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