Experimenting  

rm_phoenix6757 37M
18 posts
12/28/2005 6:03 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Experimenting


This is a topic I decided to post in both my blog and in my group A F F - Wichita(Anything Goes).

I've had a number of guys and bi-couples emailing me lately wanting to get together for some play time and it got me started thinking. You see, I am a straight guy and have been involved in threesomes and swapping a few times, but for myself and the other guy, it was all heterosexual. And while I do consider myself extremely open minded and in no way afraid to try new things, I have never done anything with another guy.
So my question is this:
Does experimenting inherently change one's sexuality, or is experimenting simply being confident enough with one's self to enjoy his/her sexuality to it's fullest?

I'm inclined to believe the latter. I have talked to many straight guys that said they have let another guy go down on them, and a few that have told me they also have stroked another guy or went down themselves, and it didn't change anything about them...they're still straight. This leads me to believe that the act itself can be enjoyed without the sexual politics of being gay, straight, bi, or whatever. Shouldn't sex be about trying new things, opening yourself up to new ideas, and trying to enjoy every aspect of it? And furthermore, if you're into chicks, then you're into chicks. I don't see how touching another guy's penis would magically flip a swith that makes you any different. That's as dumb as saying that if you're a dog person and you pet a cat, then suddenly you're a cat person...all it means is that you pet a cat, nothing more. As I said at the top of my ramblings, I've never done anything with another guy and I don't know that I ever will, but I do know that if and when I do experiment with another guy or bi-couple, I will be confident enough in my own heterosexuality to enjoy it.

So what do you all think about this subject? I want to hear everyone else's perspective.

wichitabiguy4fun 59M
3 posts
1/17/2006 7:03 am

Every guy wonders what it would be like to be with another man. Some won't admit it, but the thought is still there. I was in my 30's before I acted on my desires and I wasn't disappointed! I am married, love pussy, but really like to play with a hard cock too!!

Would love to blow you and give you a chance to see what you think.


rm_phoenix6757 37M

2/10/2006 11:16 pm

Thanks for the offer, wichitabiguy4fun, I'll keep that in mind if I ever decide to see what it's like to let a guy blow me. And thanks for your input on this subject. I'm glad a couple of guys have commented on this, and the more the merrier....but I would also like to hear from some of the women and couples as well. Keep posting your thoughts, and I can always be reached on IM with the address on Y that I posted above if anyone wants to chat about it personally.


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