Rules when meeting people.  

rm_pgn_man 39M
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7/15/2005 7:16 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Rules when meeting people.

I'm sure everyone has their own rules that they follow when meeting people for the first time to suss out what the other person wants, how truthful they've been etc, what happens after.

I can pretty much think of only one hard and fast rules I want to make myself use.

"Don't be an idiot"

That seems to cover the bases quite well...
Along with that it means that each person has to communicate and let the other what it is they will/won't do and how fast/slow they will do whatever.

If something longer-term than a quick coffee (hmmm hot cider) or a fuck comes out of it then we are both better off than before but only an idiot won't accept and respect the other person's choices, no matter how they sound. A "no, goodbye/get out" is just that, and oesn't need explaining. Ask over e-mail and they'll probably tell you.

No idiots means protection is used, I want to be a father one day but that's an important choice of time, and who, to make.

No idiots means I won't move away from my primary partner for #2, and changing countries certainly won't be happening.

Finally "don't be an idiot" means that sexy as it might be I have responsibilities to work, friends, and home and a new person comes after those unless that new person is a step up on the special list.

That was a loooong short thought wasn't it!

pussinboots4u 50M/47F

7/15/2005 8:32 am

What does the little head have to say to this rule? Just kidding - good luck in your adventures here.

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